if i make the decision to slap or hit a dude then he has every right to do the same to me.....am i supposed to have some kind of privilege to be able to hit folks all willy nilly just because i have estrogen? my brain functions just like his and i know there are consequences for my actions....so yeah if i slap the sh*t out of a dude he has every right to lose his sh*t and punch the sh*t outta me. *shrug* next time i will learn to keep my hands to myself cuz you never know what type of dude you are dealing with. some will have the restraint and some won't. i think if more dudes fight back less females will throw hands. men shouldn't be the subject of abuse from a woman just cause he has testosterone. *my two cents* *add me to whatever list you guys are compiling lol* but my momma taught me not to hit unless i am willing to get hit back.