we need to start telling both genders this. bc when we don't, it ignores the issues of violence by women.

its indefensible for him that he retaliated and should\is paying for it. she shouldn't be let off the hook though, bc she was being violent as well and that's not ok.


>Men need to just keep their hands to themselves.
>
>You can discuss whether she deserved it untimely you're blue
>in the face and make arguments on how he was morally right.
>
>But at the end of the day all he had to do was keep his hands
>to himself.

but yeah to all of this part of the message.