why is that even a topic of conversation?

that would have to be dealt with.

i'm not w/the ppl in here who seem to just accept that this kind of mess is a part of life. it doesn't have to be. it's not part of mine, at least.

i don't run w/messy ppl and i don't stand for this kind of mess to be introduced in my life or my romantic relationships. and i can't see myself marrying a guy who doesn't feel similarly about this issue. which is why i can't see us having this problem - i think my dude would've shut this shit down as i would've.