i'm not sweating that my partner had sex...no shit it happens but some people would prefer not to interact with those people or at least be informed...

i'm the latter

i would stay and i wouldn't even be particularly upset...but i'd definitely be like..."no heads up?"

i just like to be informed bc when uninformed, it invites a lot of parties to come in and kee-kee on some shit i'm not even aware of...

it's a consideration issue

when someone comes to me about it being messy...i'm prepared...that's it