All of these scenarios....the rare ones, the common ones....ALL of them would be solved if primary custody was not awarded de facto to the mother.

If primary care allocation was even between the genders....these problems would all go away. Men are victims of these circumstances for the sole reason that women are awarded the children 93% of the time. If that base inequality was closer to 50-50....we wouldn't have these disputes.

The problem, is that women are virtually guaranteed custody of the children. If that was not so....it would take away all the opportunities and possible schemes.