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Topic subjectDrokayplayers....how important is it that your SO smoke???
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12811562, Drokayplayers....how important is it that your SO smoke???
Posted by NikaMandela, Thu May-21-15 12:35 PM
i myself strongly prefer men who smoke, but not too too much.
12811569, she don't smoke at all.
Posted by KiloMcG, Thu May-21-15 12:37 PM
kinda wish she did as i think it'd help her chill out a little bit, but it's obviously not that big a deal to me. i've had 'em that did and didn't. as long as they don't look at it like some horrible behavior then it's whatever.
12811573, have a lot of women looked at it like it was a horrible thing?
Posted by NikaMandela, Thu May-21-15 12:39 PM
12811617, none that i've been with
Posted by KiloMcG, Thu May-21-15 12:56 PM
12811595, its definitely sexier
Posted by MrThomas43423, Thu May-21-15 12:47 PM
but its not a requirement. its weird tho, cause i've been with women who smoke more than me and i didn't like that. i like to take my little bowl hit and ride that thing on out. but sometimes women like to smokesmokesmoke. like take a hit, then 30 minutes later they want another hit. that was annoying and i've had to regulate that shit.

but in a perfect world my girl would like to smoke, and smoke less than me so i would be smoking less. SAVE ME INDIGO! but yeah...its preferred. and if you don't smoke...let me do me. my ex used to not like it, and i spent more time brushing my teeth so she wouldn't know than anything else.
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not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.
12811621, this is moreso what i meant up there when i said 'horrible thing':
Posted by KiloMcG, Thu May-21-15 12:58 PM

>my ex used to not like it, and i spent more time brushing my
>teeth so she wouldn't know than anything else.
12812036, how you mad chicks smoking more though...
Posted by bonitaapplebaum71481, Thu May-21-15 04:30 PM
you already do it too and as long as they can handle their high then what's the problem?


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12812140, ikr? maybe dude is cheap. or the attitude rubs him wrong. i dunno.
Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Thu May-21-15 06:15 PM
i used to fuck with a chick who could put away a quarter in a day and just generally blow through whatever the situation called for. she was young when i met her maybe 23 so it didnt show. later it caught up with her but mannnn was she a fit, crazy ass broad when we were together.
12811643, Kinda important.
Posted by spades, Thu May-21-15 01:08 PM
I don't think I can date a girl who doesn't drink/smoke.
12811647, so long as they don't judge you, it doens't matter at all
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu May-21-15 01:10 PM
12811648, not important at all.
Posted by guru0509, Thu May-21-15 01:11 PM
12811652, very.
Posted by SHAstayhighalways, Thu May-21-15 01:14 PM
12811730, don't want a girl that tokes at all.
Posted by kingjerm78, Thu May-21-15 01:54 PM
Lemme come home and you done smoked up my shit...A-QUIT-AL (c) Geah
12811767, theres hers, mine, and ours...
Posted by LAbeathustla, Thu May-21-15 02:13 PM
she always knows where the hers and ours is...but never where MINE is..
12811769, not at all important. if she smokes more than me we'll have a problem
Posted by BrooklynWHAT, Thu May-21-15 02:14 PM
12811832, Not that important if I'm really into her - but if she doesn't smoke
Posted by vee-lover, Thu May-21-15 02:51 PM
then I prefer her to at least be able to tolerate me smoking (on a daily)

A big and quick turn-off is a chick who ACTS like she has no problem w/you smoking weed but her passive aggressive ways say otherwise...always bringing up some article or something she heard abt how weed does x,y, z to you

Having said that, what is better than sharing a spliff w/your gal who ONLY smokes w/you


>i myself strongly prefer men who smoke, but not too too
>much.
12811953, They only have to be cool with me smoking
Posted by Selassie I God, Thu May-21-15 03:44 PM
I've dated a woman that smoked up half my stash (my friends used to call her Smoke-a-docious...lol) and I've dated women that didn't smoke at all, and some in the middle.

The only problem comes when they try to change or "correct" my smoking. It doesn't make me miss work. I don't drive around smoking. I am very open with my smoking, no secrets about it. Don't get "brand new" after the fact.

Ironically, the couple that didn't smoke were the most tolerant of it. *shrug*
12811997, tried to date a non smoker in college. total waste of weed
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu May-21-15 04:02 PM
Bish don't blow my high
12812007, it's only a dealbreaker if they're intolerant
Posted by BabySoulRebel, Thu May-21-15 04:12 PM
more often than not like attracts like in my world so this issue has only come up a few times and it never got that serious.
12812033, pretty fucking important
Posted by bonitaapplebaum71481, Thu May-21-15 04:27 PM
dated wayyyy too many straight edges


OVER IT


plus my fb now smokes and its.awesome

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12812040, Smoking and fucking. Best shit over
Posted by Amritsar, Thu May-21-15 04:32 PM
12812142, RE: Smoking and fucking. Best shit over
Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Thu May-21-15 06:17 PM
dude if you get a chance to try this shit called 2cb, do it. most drugs go pretty well with sex but this stuff is like *made* for it.
12812170, weed can dry out a vagina tho
Posted by NikaMandela, Thu May-21-15 06:58 PM
so you really gotta be putting in work to overcome that.

giving head with cotton mouth is no bueno either.
12812494, man, I miss high sex :o(
Posted by J_Sun, Fri May-22-15 09:27 AM

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12812046, if a chick is a heavy weed smoker I automatically assume she's a ho
Posted by ThaTruth, Thu May-21-15 04:37 PM
12812071, lmao..shit!!
Posted by LAbeathustla, Thu May-21-15 04:50 PM
12812110, being a hoe is fun tho
Posted by NikaMandela, Thu May-21-15 05:39 PM
just like smoking weed.

you just dont like girls who like to have fun.
12812234, ^^^^^nm
Posted by Binlahab, Thu May-21-15 09:17 PM

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg
12813038, lmmfao
Posted by SimplyHannah, Fri May-22-15 02:58 PM
12812118, lol
Posted by kinetic94761180, Thu May-21-15 05:49 PM
12812121, they ain't hos but they tend to smoke with any and everybody
Posted by DJPoke, Thu May-21-15 05:54 PM
Factor in niggas who use weed to bait chiks to hang with em = problems. Plus it's bad enough dealing with chiks mood swings once a month. Chiks who are heavy smokers whole attitude be fucked up when they ain't smoked.
12812135, You say that like it's a bad thing
Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Thu May-21-15 06:12 PM
12812063, It's not terribly important anymore. Now I do eddies anyway.
Posted by Mash_Comp, Thu May-21-15 04:44 PM
I find women will at least TRY edibles but will avoid smoking.
12812117, i'd rather she didn't-
Posted by kinetic94761180, Thu May-21-15 05:49 PM
if i had my preference.
12812260, ^^^^^
Posted by melmag, Thu May-21-15 10:44 PM
12812132, Important but not a deal-breaker
Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Thu May-21-15 06:10 PM
As long as she is cool--and I mean 100% cool--with my own habit I can ride with it. But of course a chick who knows the joy of inviting Mary into bed with us a big plus. SO ROLLLLL IT UP SLOOOOOOW, ROLL IT UP SLOOOOOOOW. PUFF IT ONE TIME, LET'S GET IT ON, PUFF IT ONE TIIIIIIIIME (c) Cody Chesnutt
12812139, as long as I don't have to change my habits too much
Posted by dustin, Thu May-21-15 06:15 PM
I've had girls who didn't smoke but are cool with chillin there while I do my thing. The most i would do is go outside to smoke.

She better like to drink or something though. I'd feel weird if the girl was stone sober and I'm taking spliffs to the face like usual
12812166, I dont smoke anymore but I wish my wife did
Posted by RobOne4, Thu May-21-15 06:55 PM
she has Barrett's Disease and I hear it helps with the cramping that comes along with that. Also she stresses out way to much from work. Im sure it would help her relax. But she is a goodie goodie. Super by the book. So maybe when it is legal I can convince her to try it.
12812265, you live in california. it's legal right today and has been for 18 years
Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Thu May-21-15 11:11 PM
12812298, RE: you live in california. it's legal right today and has been for 18 years
Posted by RobOne4, Fri May-22-15 02:43 AM
yeah but if she got injured at work she would have to take a drug test. If she fails that she would lose her job. Have to wait for it to be completely legal for her to be safe there.
12812883, yeah that is so lame, i am surprised it has not gone to court
Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Fri May-22-15 01:18 PM
because with like opiate pain medications and other commonly abused prescription drugs, the employer can only take action if they think your (ab)use is adversely affecting your performance in a clear way. there have been factories that thought they were experiencing lower productivity and more accidents because of prescription drug abuse, so they started testing and firing employees. they lost lawsuits or union disputes in every case. there are exceptions like jobs that require a ton of driving, but in most instances they can't can you for opioid positives and other such substances because of the Americans with Disabilities Act and other such protections.
12812241, my wife doesnt smoke nm
Posted by GriftyMcgrift, Thu May-21-15 09:48 PM
12812259, very
Posted by Mahogany, Thu May-21-15 10:41 PM
Guys that don't smoke stress me out.
12812363, Lol why?
Posted by gumz, Fri May-22-15 07:40 AM
12812489, smoking around people that don't smoke isn't fun
Posted by Mahogany, Fri May-22-15 09:23 AM
same goes for being high around somebody that doesn't smoke. I mean it's not the end of the world, but it always feels like you're being watched/judged (even if it's just a lil bit). Plus I'm just an accommodating person in general so I'll always feel a lil weird about forcing my habit on someone.

I've been smoking for a loonngg time and I can prolly count on one hand the # of people (both men and women) that I know that don't smoke and are actually ok with being around people that do. Even with that you're always kinda wondering if the person is being honest or just really good at keeping their opinion to themselves lol

A lot of people say they're ok with it, but there's a huge difference btwn being able to deal with smokers in a social setting and actually being in a relationship with one.

12812676, yup, I hate that look of shame
Posted by legsdiamond, Fri May-22-15 11:27 AM


12812950, all of this.
Posted by SHAstayhighalways, Fri May-22-15 02:00 PM
12812350, it's important that she DOESN'T
Posted by philpot, Fri May-22-15 07:16 AM
one stoner is already too much
12812470, not important at all
Posted by Johnny, Fri May-22-15 09:05 AM
my girl is an edible person that rarely smokes
she used to bring me all type of shit and never partake
12812492, not only does my wife not smoke, she's anti-weed all together.
Posted by J_Sun, Fri May-22-15 09:26 AM
don't ask me how this happened, lol.

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Posted by TheRealBillyOcean, Fri May-22-15 09:32 AM
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12812568, not important at all
Posted by MiracleRic, Fri May-22-15 10:22 AM
as long as she doesn't mind me smoking *shrugs*

i aint even gotta pass the bong
12812598, Not that important at all.
Posted by bwood, Fri May-22-15 10:48 AM
With that said I don't like heavy smokers. I don't want to be fucked up all the time.
12812671, blah
Posted by infin8, Fri May-22-15 11:24 AM


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12812719, It's ideal if she's a smoker; I hate complaints about the smell
Posted by kevlar skully, Fri May-22-15 11:49 AM