Some of those "needs" were wants, but whatever lol, I moved to be happy with my career options and social life. That wise decision, and the job that eventually came with it, changed the game for me and set me onto a positive trajectory in my 30s.

Other things that have improved my life:
-Learning how to apply every breath I take toward achieving a goal

-Accepting that being in a relationship isn't everything, and that it certainly isn't a viable strategy for happiness

-Divesting people who don't contribute anything positive to my life (or better yet, not giving them any play in the first place)

-Spending more time on things and with people that matter

-Saving and investing money

-Seeking out new and exciting experiences rather than things