At this point in my life, I have no idea what a hoe is. What I mean is that my metric is off since I'm well in my 30s and been fucking since the age of 16.

The concept of being a save-a-hoe is something I cant understand fully until the definition of a hoe is outlined.

*Is a hoe a woman who indiscriminately fucks everybody? (I call that doing what makes you happy.)

*Is a hoe a woman a who has fucked a lot of people? (I call that being a human and being alive.)

*Are we equating promiscuity with being a morally disreputable individual?

At this point there aint shit anybody could say where I would think to myself "she a hoe.."Maybe back in high school before I was fucking. Maybe that its, maybe some people are just straight up stuck in high school mentally.

Dont not a single one of you post the e-40 song. we all know the song.

Maybe that its, maybe some people are just
>straight up stuck in high school mentally.

...there's no reason to put any more thought into it.

b/c no matter what ppl say when trying to define 'ho', it goes back to that high school mentality. and in adults that mentality amounts to paternalism, sex negativity, slut shaming, misogyny, et al.

it's not any deeper than this.

In my experience with my friends, calling a dude a Capt. SAH had nothing to do with whether the girl was a hoe or not. It was just part of the saying.

It was more about clowning a dude who was doing waaaaaaaay too much for a woman who regarded him waaaaaaaay too little.

That was our thing. As in "dude, why you playing CSAH for shorty when she ain't even stuntin' you?"
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Was someone who saw a situation was stupid and went at it anyways example...

My boy started messing with a chick that was 3 months pregnant and she didnt know who the baby daddy was.... he ended up marrying her... before she had the baby... which was dumb......

He went out like Willie Lump Lump

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I had this long, meandering response types out, but you got it.

i'll give my example below
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not necessarily a ho, in the sexual sense - but mostly used as reference for a woman.

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I'm tryna be better off, not better than...

sounded horrible and I let it go.

It is a thing though.

Sounds like you are caught up on the hoe part of the equation which is a whole nother convo.


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Fuck your fort!

lol
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It's been 20 years now. He should be Brigadier General Save-A-Hoe by now

When people use that term. Hoe=woman whether she is promiscuous or not. But, let's discuss being a captain. Why would someone be called a CSAH? Who is he saving and why? Is someone labeled a CSAH a simp? If he is, does that also make him a trick?

I understand your angle, but whether is is appropriate to refer someone as a hoe or bitch or slut or not, the fact remain that those who use the term CSAH isn't focusing so on the woman but more on the person who performing the act of "saving".

Some are promiscuous, others aren't. But regardless, they aren't trying to be serious at all. And when dudes see these types and really try to be serious with them, it's like "man, you tryna save her!" And in some cases, it works great when that intersect happens between the guy being serious and her realizing that the party life, bottle chasing, celebrity type shit is no good. But in most cases, it never ever ever works.

>Some are promiscuous, others aren't. But regardless, they
>aren't trying to be serious at all. And when dudes see these
>types and really try to be serious with them, it's like "man,
>you tryna save her!" And in some cases, it works great when
>that intersect happens between the guy being serious and her
>realizing that the party life, bottle chasing, celebrity type
>shit is no good. But in most cases, it never ever ever works.

I don't believe people who use that term is focusing on the woman being saved. They are clowning the person doing the saving. Caping is similar term used for those who go out of their way to help and/or defend a woman for whatever reason.

As fucked up as it is, a woman will be referred as a "hoe" even if she is a virgin or if she is an upstanding individual. It may not be right and it may even be egregiously disrespectful, but it is what it is. Shit, some people use the word hoe as a compliment. Just depends on the person using the word and the context in which it is used.

Like you said, as you get older, you learn its bullshit. Particularly how low the 'hoe' treshold tends to be "She slept with my rommate in college!" lol.

However, I know more then a few people, both male and female, that keep on trying to date 'fixer uppers' and ive used that term more then a few times in that connotation.

I knew a nigga ready to swing on my boy over one..

shit was sad.

more to do with the dude


example is a dude who needed to find himself
has his masters (er two actually)
dumped his girl (also has her masters) to find himself
she also working on her second masters went to find herself taking classes all over the world
instead of finding himself
his finds pussy
the HS equivalency has a son pussy who he got pregnant within a year and the moved into him parents home

dude clearly did not feel needed in his relationship and sought someone
he could save
or made him feel needed


the woman is not a hoe
but that dude had a specific woman saving women needs me complex

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aka "she don't appreciate what she could have in me" dude
aka "she don't see where she could be, and she refuses to let me show her" dude
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"Captain save a Black Queen"?



the possibilities are endless..........

Captain save a ride or die chick

Chasing after someone that is 100% unavailable or uninterested, only to pass over completely normal healthy women who are actually interested and available.
My best male friend has an AAA rating in this.

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it's human nature to want something we can't have

Someone who doesn't care if they in a relationship/married they still smash. That sir is a disrespectful no moral having hoe. Save-a-hoe? you helping out the side chicks who knows what she is doing.

is the brother that send text messages to the chick you trying to smash doing dirty mackin.like tellin her "he dont really love you" .. like sending her a picture of you hanging with another chick...

Girl I was having relations with, the "homie" was trying way too hard. I was pissed at her one night and said "her dumb ass only got half a brain anyway" when she left...and the next day, she said "yeah, he told me what you said, and he told me how he kicked you out of his car for being disrespectful." WHAT?

but its still rooted in just not GAF about women

>but its still rooted in just not GAF about women


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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_7vQSPBtwyc

If he wants it defined, the song pretty much does it. It kind of renders this whole post pointless.

Robert Deniro's character is a perfect example of a csh
No matter what he did he couldn't make sharon stone's character love him
She was with that buster and he took her back
She was even messing with his boy and he took her back
She stole from him and he took her back
No matter what he did He couldn't change her/save her from being who she was...

>Robert Deniro's character is a perfect example of a csh
>No matter what he did he couldn't make sharon stone's
>character love him
>She was with that buster and he took her back
>She was even messing with his boy and he took her back
>She stole from him and he took her back
>No matter what he did He couldn't change her/save her from
>being who she was...
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pz3rrESMnzI

That also perfectly describes captain-save-a-hoism

you gettin out there and work, you buyin dooney and burke?????