12795588, RE: man... Posted by Somnus, Fri May-01-15 02:26 PM
>My mother loved me--but my grandmother showed me what love >truly was. > >-------------- >April 29, 2002 > >My mom passed. we had an argument some months prior and we >hadn't spoke for a long while. Out of the blue, she called me >two weeks before her passing telling me she didn't think she >was gonna be here much longer---I responded with a passive >"yeah, right, you ain't going no where. You're stubborn and >bull headed as a mule. Hard but hardy. > >She apologized and said she loved me--- I said "Okay". > >and we hung up. > >She passed 13 years ago today. > >I never got to say goodbye. Mothers day was a couple of days >after her passing. I remember being in TJ Maxx while everyone >was last minute shopping for Mothers Day gifts. > >I never cried so hard or so publicly in my whole life---right >there in the middle of the store. I was jealous of everyone in >that muhphucka that still had some one they could buy a gift >for and apologize to. Eyes watery, face long, nose snotty as >I made my way from the store to the parking lot. > >As a result, I make it a habit to always say good bye.
as someone who's recently lost his mom not too long ago (2 yrs now) I can't even imagine the amount of additional anguish I would've been in had I not gotten the chance to be next to her during her passing.
this truly made my heart heavy
peace, brother.
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