This is the first question you should be asking, assuming you are looking for a long term mate. Don't worry about her views on marriage or children, or religious or political affiliation... ask her how she likes her orange juice, pulp free or full of pulp.

The answer is irrelevant, it's the next question that is important.

Let's say she responds with pulp free (in my experience this is the most common answer)..

Question 2: “Hypothetically, if I preferred my orange juice with full pulp, would you meet me in the middle and drink some pulp?”

If the answer is yes, proceed (albeit with whatever caution you already have). If she answers no, ABORT MISSION. You're about to spend an evening with nature's most stubborn creation.