"a lot of unwanted drama and heartache can be avoided when you're mind isn't so fixated on the unending pursuit of trying to "get some""

and i disagree
not everyone is in that pursuit of sex
someone who is not having sex can easily fall into drama and heartache trying to find what they are looking for.

expanding on sex was just to show that ultimately for most people involved in drama and heartache, sex isn't as prevalent an 'issue' as most would think