i feel guilty about it but yeah i quietly judge.

the Bible says dont do it.

but yeah. I'm for it. when i was a teenager and devoutly Christian, i was saving myself for marriage...then college happened and i started asking questions about Christianity and it stopped making sense. i still wanted to wait until i was married. you can imagine my fine ass having the virginity talk with prospective romantic partners, lol. it was tricky and more complicated that necessary. so eventually i started fornicating and wish i would have started sooner.

#issues

i think when i have kids it will be more about creating that space where they can talk to me and i can guide them through the process of understanding and managing their sexuality.