all I'm saying is that it's possible.

I didn't say that wanting to have sex causes problems. you're always going to want to have sex. that's just built into us as humans. abstinence will not stop that desire (nor should it). I'm talking about going out and trying to constantly fulfill that desire. that's where the problems can come in.

and I'm certainly not saying that if you're abstinent that you should get married just to have sex. that'd be a horribly stupid reason to marry someone.