so long. Same with arranged marriage. Women had less choice and divorce wasn't/isn't an option.

It's hard to point to examples from the past and arrange marriage to make the case for why no premarital sex is a good thing.



>they didn't cohabitate or have sex (w/each other) before they
>exchanged vows.
>
>it can be done. and, of course, my parents aren't an isolated
>example - millions of ppl all over the world make marriages
>work w/o premarital sex or shacking up. hell, some ppl make
>marriages work w/o even having MET much if at all before the
>wedding ('arranged marriage').


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