>sure you WANT to have sex before marriage, but it's not
>necessary. just because you have sex with someone and it's
>great doesn't mean that it always will be. just the same as
>not having had sex with someone you have married doesn't mean
>that it won't be great in the future.

I am not arguing that great sex equals the person to marry and bad sex equals the person not to marry.

I am arguing making an informed decision. Which also has nothing to do with what "everyone else is doing".

Also the desire to "want to get some" isn't at all determined by whether you decide to abstain or not (ie, you can decide to abstain and still be consumed with the desire to want and get some (in other words, "puberty").

And finally wanting to "get some" is probably one of the worst reasons to get married.


>
>just because "everyone else is doing it" does mean much of
>anything honestly. people are kinda blinded to a lot of the
>problems that have come about from having such a passive
>attitude about sex.
>
>I would advise my kids to wait until they're married to have
>sex. a lot of unwanted drama and heartache can be avoided
>when you're mind isn't so fixated on the unending pursuit of
>trying to "get some".


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