sure you WANT to have sex before marriage, but it's not necessary. just because you have sex with someone and it's great doesn't mean that it always will be. just the same as not having had sex with someone you have married doesn't mean that it won't be great in the future.

just because "everyone else is doing it" does mean much of anything honestly. people are kinda blinded to a lot of the problems that have come about from having such a passive attitude about sex.

I would advise my kids to wait until they're married to have sex. a lot of unwanted drama and heartache can be avoided when you're mind isn't so fixated on the unending pursuit of trying to "get some".