So you know how I feel about not making sexy time before marriage.

How can folks make such huge commitments without being expose to some basic aspects of their potential mate. Like whether they keep a nasty bathroom or have a micropenis.


>the advice is only problematic if it results in folks being
>unequipped to handle many of the negative consequences of sex
>- unwanted pregnancies, STI's, HIV infection, shaming, et al.
>
>i don't agree that ppl NEED to have sex w/their potential mate
>before marriage or that they NEED to have sex at all before
>their first marriage.
>


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