Coworker's husband and their 2 kids went outta town Satuday/Sunday.

Coworker and her girls decide to have girls night out.....

They go and get fucked up...

She gets so fucked up she shouldn't be driving

but does

She asks a guy that she's known for years to follow her home

it was a 7-10 minute drive

He does

When they get to her house safely he says he gotta pee...

she don't tell him to pee outside

she lets him in the house

He comes in pisses and then proceeds to put his bid in.

She gives him the "you're like a brother to me" speech n shit...

He don't wanna hear that and tries and tries

wears her the fuck down.

She ends up making out but not fuckin dude no clothes off no skin on skin contact or nada.

Sunday morning she feels terrible

she was drunk is her excuse

she asking me should she tell her husband cause she feels so bad and don't like keeping shit from him.


i'm bringing it to y'all.

then kissed and felt all up on him
NOW you want me to say nah it's cool ur good I love you.

yeah pretty sure some furniture gonna be moved.

she should tell.

he should leave.

If it was me, knowing my wife...I wouldn't want to know. She was drunk and used bad judgment on multiple levels. I'd need to know more info about dude tho....was it someone I knew and was cool with? Someone that's been in the house already?

Like aside from the extras that happened, would i be upset if she told me that she let dude in to pee?

We got kids too? My whole thing would be could i trust her going forward. IF so, I'd try to move on. If not, I might take the L for the sake of the kids.

cause that needs to be considered if you tell her anything besides FUCK NO!!!

As I've heard so many times...people only want to tell to clear their own conscience.

All it's gonna do is make him not trust her at all, and he'll be on her head for every damn thing. If he's outta town, texting her every 20 minutes. AND if he happens to know cuz, he's surely gonna try to fuck him up. Dude probably deserves to get fuck'd up anyway.

She made a mistake, as long as it's not a pattern, I see NO good in her telling her dude.

pretty sure not his first time going hard after being told no multiple times

meanwhile, it's all about the amount of guilt one can live with. If she sounds bent out of shape about it, she might as well tell and face the music

and, of course, she should never repeat that mistake.

and stay away from that guy.

>She asks a guy that she's known for years to follow her home

Where were her girls?? She gave dude the wrong idea. smh

>>She asks a guy that she's known for years to follow her
>home
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>Where were her girls?? She gave dude the wrong idea. smh


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"And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful." ~ 2 Tim 2:4

and lives in the hood.

I don't make this shit up Rev...gon head on

before she decided to go out and get drunk. That's a poor excuse.

you're right - that's totally unbelievable.

a dude an idea that you wanted to fuck.

Like i said in the first place...where were her girls? The girls she planned to go out with in the first place. You go out, you have a plan to get home. I'm assuming we not talking about a 20 year old kid here.

her girls got independent with other men

i told her she led this dude on and had to know yada yada

>i told her she led this dude on and had to know yada yada.

maybe she naive and didn't know...but that's what happened.

to not have a story to tell

incorrectly thought this guy was in the friendzone. Dude sounds like a slimeball to push up on a drunk married woman, assuming the two never had a romantic relationship prior to this instance.

she's a married woman and her husband is out of town - she could've used that as her excuse not to let him in.

but she was drunk at the time and made a bad decision. which she now regrets, i'm sure.

family is out of town and she asking me to follow her home to make sure she get in safe............sheeeeeit. Extremely unlikely this story has a happy ending.

LOL

if he followed her home - in his car - while she drove her car and then when they got to her house she went in the house after saying goodbye to him w/o letting him in there is no problem.

he goes home probably disappointed but she hasn't violated any of her wedding vows.

It's pretty simple. I'm not sure what else you are yammering about.

And she'd be annoyed and frustrated that I thought she was tryna was dfw.

i mean if she didn't invite the guy in the house. b/c she got what she wanted - safe arrival at her house.

HE would be the disappointed party.

and yes, i wasn't clear what you meant by 'it wouldn't end well'. i was like, it wouldn't end well for whom?

they have a shot. See, i took that as a 95% chance that she wanted to bone but just didn't want to be direct it with it. I woulda stopped and inquired at the first no tho. She woulda been annoyed at my forwardness if she really just wanted an escort home.


yeah, i reread what i wrote and i see how it came off as rapey lol Not what i meant at all. I started writing one thought, paused to do something, and came back and finished what i was thinking at the time.

So you're a good guy :)

i'm just here presenting what i was told fam.

She should admit to her husband she was driving drunk in their car

bathroom.

the urine droplets around the rim gave it away.

He's lettin' sh*t marinate.

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i would've not found this until i (or she) cleaned the toilet.

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i grew up in a house full of women.

lifting seats seemed like a choire.

learning to pee through the seat happened early.

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she pretty on the up and up

you don't think she would keep things from you? o ard

they tell me shit they don't tell they husband

one in here told me bout her uncle molesting her in 3rd grade and aint told nobody in her family that shit....

or that they don't keep things from you in order to believe their own lies.
women do this with their own homegirls
hell humans just do it as a way to protect themselves from judgement
they tell half truths, withhold part of the truth, etc
so that while they feel a little bit better by getting some of it out
they won't get the backlash of the person they're telling actually pointing out their bullshit

*shrug*

but ok.

>women do this with their own homegirls
>hell humans just do it as a way to protect themselves from
>judgement
>they tell half truths, withhold part of the truth, etc
>so that while they feel a little bit better by getting some of
>it out
>they won't get the backlash of the person they're telling
>actually pointing out their bullshit
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>*shrug*
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>but ok.

I am that homegirl that will get the entire story either in bits and pieces or I just know them well enough to connect the dots because they don't wanna hear my mouf :(

Shit, she admitted to cheating on her husband!!! That's surely bad enough.

I believe you of course...she might not have told him "well I mean we have flirted" "we did actually go on a date before my husband" "I complained to him once when my husband wouldn't eat me out like he used to"....but still, who's to say that there's actually more to it all?

i don't know the chick but the story just seems mad incomplete TO ME
she says he kept trying but she never says she ever told him to leave
to ME it seems like they were kissing and she turned down his advances to fk a few times
then gave in. but in the end nobody knows besides her and dude

for women.. it's kissing because it's more personal. smh..

not sure why some women believe that nonsense.

but i've also heard men don't kiss women they're just smashing for similar reasons.
to me the worse offense is the one babies can come out of.

but kissing? That's personal.

whatever.

Knowing which one is more dangerous and risky. But kissing just feels different. It's girls who look good who I still hated kissing, just because it feels like a complete chore if I'm not into them. Sex is much more selfish.

Same with oral...a good amount of women call me selfish and may not even let me hit again because I wasn't about to get down on that side.

RE: which is worse kissing or fucking? lol

to go out and get even. LOL

Kissing would be more difficult. I'd be crushed if she kissed another dude. I'd still need to TAKE a Go Smash coupon to try and get over it though.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vqH6cK61JLg

who da fuk just stops at kissin

when they drunk

ol spin da bottle ass niggas

i've worked with plenty women and if i don't wanna engage outside of a work project, i didn't.

Fuck no she shouldnt tell. I mean unless she wants a divorce/split/or some other shit

But probably not the best thing.

if she truly on some fuck shit then she showed her ass


if she good peoples and it was a honest mistake then she kinda dumb

like da lie is dumb and dont make no sense

some nigga she known for years "follow" her home?

she let a nigga in the house after da club?

they stopped at kissin?

lol ok


i think she shouldnt tell but she need to do betta

she playin too much

she has some terrible friends...she should have called a cab or something if she was so messed up she couldn't make better decisions.

now to be honest, i have had male friends take me home when i was drunk and i am sure to not invite them in because that's how bad situations happen. sorry but it's true, and i'm not big enough to fight anyone and sometimes men will pressure you into doing things you don't want to do...i have seen it, experienced it, etc. it's unfortunate because there are good men out there....

but she mad a lot of bad decisions.

she can tell her husband but he will probably be pissed, and she needs to prepare for the worst case scenario (i assume that's divorce). also would she want to know if her husband did the same?

She tells me her fam went away for the weekend and then she gets twisted...asks me to follow her home so that she gets in safe. I follow her home, roll down my window as she walks to her house...wave bye-bye. Wait for her to turn a light on inside before I pull off.




She prolly thinking i'm gay.

w/o any drama.

ain't no woman asking you to do all that for a wave goodbye.

Give these women some fucking credit...

treating them like helpless little girls.

These women be SCANDALOUS just like men

over or nah?

Make sure I get home safe.....homeboy, don't wanna seem like an out and out slime bucket did the same thing, can i come in to pee real quick?

and if it were the case it seems she changed her mind.

but, again, no self-respecting str8 dude is just gonna say 'okay' when a woman has given him the green light but then switches it up on him. right? so he has to rape her at that point or else risk her thinking he's gay.

what y'all are saying makes LOTS of sense.

I said she gave mixed signals...so his first attempt at kissing her or whatever is 'understandable'. I have no problem per se with her saying no at whatever point she wanted to. That's her right.

She should also be able to honestly assess the situation soberly after the fact to see how she gave homey mixed signals.

she probably wouldn't have minded. b/c she was glad to be at home safe w/o drama and w/o breaking her vows. she may have had a fleeting thought about why he didn't make more of a move on her. but overall she would've just been glad to be at home...alone.

y'all are on this 'he had to come on to her to prove that he's not gay' thing. i'm ridiculing it by saying he should've raped her to really prove he's not gay. b/c i don't think that woman really wanted to bone that dude. or at least she wasn't sure. if she were sure she would've INVITED him in - he wouldn't have had to ask if he could come in to pee. she would've invited him in for a cup of coffee or something to eat b/c she wants him to sober up a little before he goes home. or even she would've invited him to crash on her couch b/c she doesn't want him driving home drunk. etc etc.

he's not gay lolol at the thought though.

I'm saying if she didn't want to come out and say directly "come back to the house to have sex with me" she said follow me home even though she really wanted to have sex. Sure she coulda said want some tea, but offering to put that nigga in her house is doing waay too much. lol

Assuming that part is true, if dude simply watched her walk in and left, she'd be thinking that he's gay for not wanting to get "all of this".

Its not about proving he's not gay.

Its about her thinking that's the only reason he wouldn't want what she was throwing at him.

Get it?

Jeez.

>Assuming that part is true, if dude simply watched her walk in
>and left, she'd be thinking that he's gay for not wanting to
>get "all of this".
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>Its not about proving he's not gay.

but...it is. that is what you're saying.

>Its about her thinking that's the only reason he wouldn't want
>what she was throwing at him.

>Get it?

uh...yeah. again, he had to come on to her to prove to her he's not gay.

"It's a good thing he made a move on her or else she'd think he's gay"

>Jeez.

right.

about that.

>but...it is. that is what you're saying.

A nigga would only care if a woman thought he was gay based on an above situation if he really liked the girl or wants to hit. If he really liked the girl and wanted to hit, he woulda tried to. If he had an opportunity to hit and didn't, that means he fumbled the pussy and will probably never get a chance to again. And she's thinking he's gay as a way to protect her self-esteem.

If its a woman he not interested in having sex with at all, he wouldn't care if she think he gay. If its a clingy, annoying woman, her thinking he's gay would be a blessing.

i'm talking about what y'all are saying.

you ppl are saying that if he hadn't come on to her she'd think he's gay. i'm not saying HE was aware of this.

and i disagree w/y'all that she would've gone there either. b/c this woman was NOT 'bout it when it came to boning this dude. if she were 'bout it then the whole thing would've gone differently. if he'd left w/o coming on to her i think she'd just be glad she got home safely and alone. she might laugh at herself for having even entertained the idea of seducing him. she might be glad that he was enough of a gentleman not to take advantage of her.

now, if she'd invited him IN and he said 'no' then she might use the 'he must be gay' thing to make herself feel better. but if she didn't invite him in and he drove off w/o trying she'd likely be glad she got out of that situation safely and w/o breaking her vows.

>A nigga would only care if a woman thought he was gay based on
>an above situation if he really liked the girl or wants to
>hit.

i agree.

If he really liked the girl and wanted to hit, he woulda
>tried to.

right. and he did.

If he had an opportunity to hit and didn't, that
>means he fumbled the pussy and will probably never get a
>chance to again.

correct.

And she's thinking he's gay as a way to
>protect her self-esteem.

yes.

>If its a woman he not interested in having sex with at all, he
>wouldn't care if she think he gay. If its a clingy, annoying
>woman, her thinking he's gay would be a blessing.

yup.

i mean thats all i'm trying to clarify at this point.

you said that if you met a chick at a bar and she asked you to follow her home and you did and then drove off w/o coming on to her SHE MIGHT THINK you are gay.

now, w/o saying it you have implied that in a situation like that if the guy doesn't hit on the woman who has thrown signals at him she is likely to think he is gay.

the implication is that the dude needs to hit on the woman in that situation or else she will think he is gay.

how many more times do i need to say the same thing?

b/c i can keep saying it.

Its about getting pussy. No one goes out to the club/bar trying to prove that they are not gay(except maybe a confused gay nigga). A repercussion of not getting pussy put in front of you is that she may think you are gay.

If a parent doesn't take care of their kids, it can appear to other people that she doesn't love her kids. Does that mean that a parent that does take care of their kids does it bc they are trying to prove their love to other people? No, they do it because that's what they are motivated to do.

>Its about getting pussy. No one goes out to the club/bar
>trying to prove that they are not gay(except maybe a confused
>gay nigga). A repercussion of not getting pussy put in front
>of you is that she may think you are gay.

sure. lol

>If a parent doesn't take care of their kids, it can appear to
>other people that she doesn't love her kids. Does that mean
>that a parent that does take care of their kids does it bc
>they are trying to prove their love to other people? No, they
>do it because that's what they are motivated to do.

I HAVE NOT SAID THAT THE GUY HIT ON THE CHICK TO PROVE HE IS NOT GAY.

i said that the implication your statement - that if he doesn't hit on her she will think he's gay - is that he SHOULD hit on her to keep her from thinking he's gay.

If he's not interested in her, he doesn't care what she thinks.

Actually, its not implied, i've said it directly.

It's clear that since she's not reporting a rape those 2 had sex. Bc no self respecting str8 man just goes along when a woman changes her mind about sex!

back in my young single days it was a common theme to accuse a guy of being gay if he was alone with a woman who was interested in him and he didn't try to make a move.

we just telling you what women believe when they throw a bone and we don't bite.

Way different, but in the end, I just feel like I should have at least TRIED to make some kind of move. And she couldn't have possibly been mad if I had tried it. But I just didn't feel comfortable enough, or as if she really wanted me to try her. BUT...shit....still.

to...

she will ...cause she 'feels so bad'

but yeah...

and LOL @ people finding this unbelievable
work chicks tell all they got damn business

...who was looking for advice about her sorry (now ex) boyfriend around the time we were first starting to interact with each other. I used to shoot her advice all the time. I know about all the times dude was arrested, his temper, times he was crying to her, etc. It definitely happens.



Since 1976

Even if she doesn't tell the husband, I have a feeling he'll tell something is wrong if the woman telling you the story feels guilty for what she did.

clearly she left out the part where the dude was her ISIS recruiter and she was supposed to run away to Syria w/him while her husband was away and she used the whole 'going out with my girls' thing as part of her defense. she was going to say that she got drunk and decided to go to Syria and fight w/the terrorist b/c she was blacked out but then she got cold feet and ditched her recruiter. and now she feels guilty on multiple levels - she was going to leave her husband and her kids, she was torn between her principles and her family, she had chose her principles, but then standing there in her house looking at her family pix she couldn't do it, so she bailed, and that means she broke a vow to ISIS and Allah and her cause, but either way she was going to break a vow to her husband.

and so now she's making up this b/s story to cover her real guilt. she is floating this out there to see if ppl will buy it. b/c if so she can sell this to her husband too when he wonders why the neighbors said they saw a strange man in the house while the husband was gone.

i stay woke. she won't fool me w/this shit!

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what exactly is "making out".

because im sure her husband would want to know what that means..

and how do you make out with out any skin on skin contact. as far As I can tell that at least involves kissing...

He's going to try his hand again and he clearly isn't above applying pressure so she shouldn't expect him to just fade to black.

or relationship they had is completely ruined because of how awkward things are.

why was dude so persistent before making out?

but not after?

like...before he has a clear shot he's throwing hail marys...now that he's all but in there...he's running the ball down 14-0

if u the full court press type...why would u let up after trapping the guard?

sounds like some half-truths

or:

she left out the part where he tried to unbutton her shirt but she said 'no'.

she left out the part where he tried to put his hands down her pants or up her skirt but she said 'stop'.

she left out the part where he tried to feel on her breasts but she moved his hand(s) away.

et al.

it's like only doing the drugging but not the penetrating (C) Seinfeld voice

if u can't fend off a high pressure salesman cold call...how do u fend of the warm pitch?

#kindalikerapeculture

>it's like only doing the drugging but not the penetrating (C)
>Seinfeld voice

yup... somebody lyin

So 'why didn't he rape her?'

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can't be out here half-raping women...

WHY would u do that to yourself, her self-esteem, and DICK WOLF???!!!?!?

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she made a point of denying all advances before the makeout session but not during the makeout session

it could just be odd storytelling but that combined with the "like a brother to me"

just makes it sound fishy

if dude is that rapey sounding...what did she say or do to make him less rapey sounding after a makeout? does that imply handjob?

>she made a point of denying all advances before the makeout
>session but not during the makeout session

1. she was drunk.
2. she was drunk.
3. he wore her down, she said.
4. she was drunk.

>it could just be odd storytelling but that combined with the
>"like a brother to me"
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>just makes it sound fishy

5. she was drunk.

>if dude is that rapey sounding...what did she say or do to
>make him less rapey sounding after a makeout? does that imply
>handjob?

it implies she was not thinking clearly. likely b/c....

i mean, it sounds like she really loves her husband and just did some stupid shit.

i'd rather she just live with the guilt of doing some shit behind my back that really didn't harm anyone but her - and she knows she's wrong.

Look, I'm going to tell my husband you're pushing up on me.


This situation sounds almost identical to a time my coworker took advantage of the situation. I was left feeling SOOOOO pissed and really like it wasn't my fault though it was really my fault. Everything has a domino effect. You can't control other people you can only control yourself.


I would tell my husband though. I would have called right after it happened.

you ever try to pack your shit up while drunk?

cause best believe you would be headed for divorce if you told that dumb ass story.

IN MY HOUSE? Nah.. you gotta eat hat one.

His ass would be packing or never be my husband. People aren't perfect and if we're going to be together a lifetime, mistakes will happen.

Hopefully I'll have a husband who would know me better.

it's one thing to kiss a guy in the club..
or in the parking lot..
or on vacation or work retreat..

and all those are still grounds for GET THE FUCK OUT!!!

but in YALLZEZ HOUSE? Where your kids sleep? Where we both rest our head?

FUCK and NO!!!

Don't give us that much credit and don't give yourself that much credit that you would find the one man who would understand.

Any dude who would calmly work it out with you got bodies on him.

like he might tell or try to cause some issues
so she might need to head it off at the pass

i dunno
i'm glad this isn't my life :D

"yeah i was about to smash his girl but I was like na

why was this dude at the same spot she was?

married people always find a way to be at the spot where that one guy/girl who has a history with them just so happens to be when their spouse is out of town.

It's plenty of money to be made
from Candler Road to Bankhead
It's plenty of room to get paid
for those that ain't scared

Funniest night ever. I had a girl over after the club, and between 3:30 AM and 5 AM, I'm getting text from the homie AND the girl (since she's our friend too) both with the opposite intention.

His texts: "Ok, so she let me use the bathroom, should I say I'm too drunk to drive home?"

Her: "OMG I let him use the bathroom and now he won't leave!"

Him: "She gave me a blanket and I'm on the couch. How do I get into her room?"

Her: "OMG he claims he's too cold to sleep on the couch, and he has to sleep in my bed!"

Oh...all of this after they literally made out the ENTIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIRE night. Like awlllllll night.

sounded like he didnt

Shouldnt she have said "Im married"

seems like she was bout it bout it

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why even try a married woman? Too many women out there for that shit. Type of dude that try to fuck his potnas ex-girlfriends on the low.

you up once her fam is back.

Not what i did, but thats the appeal.

Now of them dudes was boys, well, thats another scenario.

Twitter feminist, or married for 48 years. Don't really matter to a lot of guys.

makes me think this dude was a scumbag; that's assuming they were strictly platonic and this is the first time he displayed any physical attraction to her.

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it could only make ish worse

that drunk kissing coulda happened in the club so she should just chalked it up to being inebriated and move on.

Her feeling guilty is enough without bringing a potentially pissed off husband into the mix.

if he stay hard, they can stay together.

if he goes limp, the marriage is over.

let Cocksatawny Phil see if he sees his shadow and shit.

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