People may not like the fact but it's true. Now the onus falls on the one that chooses to engage in sexual activity.

>if she was practicing bc + safe sex, its unlikely she'd be
>pregnant.


Again, that is not a guarantee and who's to say that she wanted to use some kind of protection. The choice is still hers and hers alone..



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"And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful." ~ 2 Tim 2:4