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12770702, Ladies: Why come you just can't be wrong?
Posted by Geah, Thu Apr-02-15 01:40 PM
This chick wants me to put her son through some hoops drills. Monday she text me asking if I'll be able to if she gets the gym...
Her: when u gonna work out H
Me: When can I...
No response.
Til today
Her: I never heard back from u Monday
Me: I asked when I could and u never replied
Her: SCREENSHOTS our convo and says "U didn't ask u said "when I can" so I didn't know how to reply to that!!! I don't know when ur available man"
Me: Please go back and re read the exact pic you sent me and then apologize
Her: I am so sorry....that you didn't use a question mark
I ain't replying
Fuck her and her son(muhfucka swear he cold anyway)
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12770707, LOL she's funny
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu Apr-02-15 01:41 PM
can you imagine being married to her though. *finger gun to the head*
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12770711, lolol well your text was a little confusing but she shoulda said huh? or
Posted by Cenario, Thu Apr-02-15 01:42 PM
something instead of saying you never replied and then showing you the response where you clearly replied. lol
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12770718, his text is not confusing lol
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu Apr-02-15 01:44 PM
shit is clear as day.
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12770754, no it isn't...
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Apr-02-15 02:07 PM
when is he available...
when is he free...
tomorrow at 8.
when can I... without punctuation comes off like "yo, I never agreed to do it"
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12770760, jesus christ.
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu Apr-02-15 02:11 PM
"when can i"
is unclear to you?
hooked on phonics bro. i hear it works.
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12770761, She's asking for the favor, though. It's on her to go the extra
Posted by Teknontheou, Thu Apr-02-15 02:11 PM
mile to clear up whatever confusion she might have had.
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12770766, that we agree on, but th at doesn't mean it wasn't confusing
Posted by Cenario, Thu Apr-02-15 02:12 PM
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12770777, doesnt seem remotely confusing to me
Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Thu Apr-02-15 02:19 PM
you are in here talking like text messages got a copy editor. man fucking with these young bitches everything is a mystery of abbreviations, misspellings (often intentional), poor grammar, etc. punctuation is a luxury. as someone who typically has to be super anal about everything (yesterday at work a coworker had a 5-minute argument with an editor over COMMA USAGE), i actually find it refreshing and, surprisingly, seldom do i find myself unclear on what's being said
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12770798, and i'm the opposite...if your text is confusing or coulld mean multiple
Posted by Cenario, Thu Apr-02-15 02:26 PM
things, i'm disregarding it until i have time to deal with it.
unless of course, i'm asking for something.
But that fact that YOU understand it, don't mean its any less confusing.
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12771895, when can ... is it ... are you ... these are all the start of QUESTIONS
Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Fri Apr-03-15 04:52 PM
no statement begins with "when can ..." ever, not once in history
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12770811, ^
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu Apr-02-15 02:31 PM
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12770820, Oh, I woulda hit him back ASAP because IMO it wasn't clear
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Apr-02-15 02:36 PM
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12770853, ur right. if she needs the favor it's on her to pursue said favor.
Posted by PROMO, Thu Apr-02-15 02:55 PM
but yeah, his reply was confusing with the "..."
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12772051, "When can I?" is confusing to you?
Posted by Cold Truth, Sat Apr-04-15 09:28 AM
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12770716, lol the first time I read this I read "when I can" as well
Posted by SuiteLady, Thu Apr-02-15 01:44 PM
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12770721, lol...they gotta gene that won't allow em
Posted by ambient1, Thu Apr-02-15 01:46 PM
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12770742, you aren't wrong but text better dude...
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Apr-02-15 02:00 PM
when can I...
man, that reads like "hold up, I didn't say I could"
ionno... that was a shitty exchange.
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12770762, She gets the gym. She has to tell me when I can. She asked a question first
Posted by Geah, Thu Apr-02-15 02:11 PM
with no ?
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12770771, lmao...yeah the irony that she gonna ding you for no ?
Posted by auragin_boi, Thu Apr-02-15 02:14 PM
when she didn't use one.
If she was reasonable, she woulda just said "my bad" and picked the convo back up.
LOL at you punting over it tho.
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12770773, Yeah I don't know what she thought he meant but no response wasnt
Posted by Cenario, Thu Apr-02-15 02:16 PM
The answer...and then claiming he didn't response when he did...was wrong too
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12770793, Yeah...punting might be a better response
Posted by auragin_boi, Thu Apr-02-15 02:25 PM
than what I'd do. I get too caught up in 'training'.
YOU GONNA GET THIS WORK!
Guess it all depends on who 'she' is to me too. I'd go straight adult on her if I felt compelled though:
"Look, I don't mind helping your lil man out but let's be grown about the communication. If you didn't use a ? and assumed I'd understand your question, don't get technical with my question. You're responsible for getting the gym so you'd need to coordinate the time and provide me options/info right?"
She probably wouldn't respond but I'd feel 110% vindicated for exposing her to communication with a grown man. lol
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12770823, OK, I she gets the gym it makes more sense
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Apr-02-15 02:38 PM
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12770866, it didn't make sense when i wrote it up top?
Posted by Geah, Thu Apr-02-15 03:02 PM
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12770903, nah, I skimmed.
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Apr-02-15 03:21 PM
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12771088, Lulz
Posted by Dstl1, Thu Apr-02-15 06:38 PM
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12771876, I wuz wrong but I can admit it
Posted by legsdiamond, Fri Apr-03-15 04:19 PM
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12770782, "When can I" is a question. Every time, without fail, by nature
Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Thu Apr-02-15 02:21 PM
There is nothing unclear here.
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12770804, when can I....
Posted by Cenario, Thu Apr-02-15 02:28 PM
I was waiting for the rest of this thought lol
and like legs said...It could come off like "when can I????" on some passive aggressive when did i agree to this.
Putting the "?" is actually simpler than the damn "..." anyway lol
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12770810, dude, he said "when can i"
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu Apr-02-15 02:31 PM
to a question regarding a specific thing. there is no confusion.
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12770816, he said "when can I..."
Posted by Cenario, Thu Apr-02-15 02:33 PM
as long as we are being factual.
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12770845, come on man.
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu Apr-02-15 02:53 PM
a capital I and an ellipse really threw you for a loop?
sigh.
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12770849, of course not.
Posted by Cenario, Thu Apr-02-15 02:54 PM
just the ellipsis.
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12771897, i think there was the rest of a sentence like "when can i pick you up"
Posted by ConcreteCharlie, Fri Apr-03-15 04:54 PM
and that is a question, period, no other way to interpret it
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12770808, i thought i was taking crazy pills
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu Apr-02-15 02:30 PM
how are people this dense? lol
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12770933, I'm saying - what's confusing here?
Posted by spades, Thu Apr-02-15 03:40 PM
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12770750, Dyslexia + text void of punctuation = text communication FAIL
Posted by auragin_boi, Thu Apr-02-15 02:05 PM
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12770789, i am dumbfounded people needed a question mark to understand that
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu Apr-02-15 02:24 PM
like, seriously. i can't even deal with this.
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12770828, cry about it
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Apr-02-15 02:39 PM
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12770846, ^ not the sharpest tool in the shed.
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu Apr-02-15 02:53 PM
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12770891, They call me the hammer
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Apr-02-15 03:18 PM
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12770864, For all that arguing up top she thought i said when i can
Posted by Geah, Thu Apr-02-15 03:02 PM
because she didn't read.
wasn't no ellipses throwing her off, wasn't no confusion. She got dis leck sick and assumed
now we got a tit for tat in here lol..
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12770878, people struggling with 3 lil ass words, smh
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu Apr-02-15 03:11 PM
making it a big deal, come on.
okp's LOVE to rock their capes.
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12770898, will you STFU and let us get to 5PM
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Apr-02-15 03:20 PM
go shine your Doc Martins or re-cuff your jeans.
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12770957, smh
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu Apr-02-15 03:52 PM
u mad cause you can't extrapolate the meaning from 3 tiny ass words. lol
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12771068, yeah, i'm mad..lol
Posted by legsdiamond, Thu Apr-02-15 06:04 PM
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12771077, lol, listen fam
Posted by initiationofplato, Thu Apr-02-15 06:12 PM
insult me, but NOT MY DAMN SHOES!
that's where i draw the line. haha
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12771875, lol..true
Posted by legsdiamond, Fri Apr-03-15 04:17 PM
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12770913, lol @ only one lady being in here
Posted by teefiveten, Thu Apr-02-15 03:28 PM
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12770928, What's your assessment, second woman in this post?
Posted by Numba_33, Thu Apr-02-15 03:36 PM
Dudes flocking to this post because we're bitter and angry or women ignoring this post because they're ignoring any possibility they are capable of being wrong?
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12770952, his texting sucks
Posted by teefiveten, Thu Apr-02-15 03:50 PM
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12770954, but being she's asking him to do something
Posted by teefiveten, Thu Apr-02-15 03:51 PM
she should/could be more proactive
maybe that's just me though. when i am getting a favor i'm extra diligent about the moving parts
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12770943, *lady #3 steps in*
Posted by lfresh, Thu Apr-02-15 03:47 PM
Nope
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12770959, I hate how people read into text messages
Posted by Kim Jong Trill, Thu Apr-02-15 03:54 PM
only flaw of texting is you can't interpret tone.
all in all, she sounds like she did you a favor
Fuck your fort!
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12770980, lol
Posted by Trinity444, Thu Apr-02-15 04:11 PM
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12770995, Including the son in the last line makes me laugh everytime
Posted by Numba_33, Thu Apr-02-15 04:16 PM
Out of curiosity, were you going to charge her money for these drills or was this going to be something done for free?
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12771078, Full disclosure
Posted by Geah, Thu Apr-02-15 06:15 PM
she pays 35 for an hour of a half court.
I don't charge her
I require that her sons have at LEAST 2 other guys with him and charge them
Most times its 4 of them
35
35
35
105 for an hour of easy work
Twice per week.
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12771142, cause dudes will equate wrong with dumb
Posted by sosumi, Thu Apr-02-15 08:27 PM
no matter how much they claim dudes like to joke…
or that they do not remember, only chicks have such memory…
chicks are just dumber or dumberer
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12771872, Babydoll is hopeless.....
Posted by NoDrawls McGraw, Fri Apr-03-15 04:08 PM
And the fact that she obliviously SCREENSHOT'D her wrongness?
Shit is sad, Bruh...
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