and sometimey. Im easy to get along with, but i think i come across as funny acting to most women, whereas guys dont really notice so its easier for me. My best friend of 13yrs is a male. Its really no upkeep with our friendship. He calls, i pick up and thats that. You have to put in work to maintain a normal friendship, and i can be lazy and admittedly selfish when it comes to that. I just stay away.