does this only happen with young women who have poor character?

why don't they understand the importance of the womaly bond?

are they only subject to a lifetime of whore-ing?

They don't realize most guys aren't *that* misogynistic and that he sees it as a terrible reflection on the woman saying it.

and often enough there are gender specific stereotypes that will apply.

like:

all men like sports
all women wear heels
all men can change a tire
all women like to gossip?

and you're in the neighborhood.. there are exceptions and no reason stereotypes need to be desparaging... but just as something can be considered very okayplayery etc... grains of sand on the beachhead of truth.

people comfy stereotyping the women who get along with guys as whores but not the other stereotypes lol

negative views of women who are like that

now I see it can apply to women who been backstabbed too many times and don't want no more drama

Like, aren't they the ones attracting and keeping that foolery around them? Seems like a copout to me.

I think there's a difference btwn a person who is always getting into some sort of conflict with women and a woman that just prefers to hang out with guys. I also think it depends on the type of people you're around. Like I said in that post most of the women around me aren't like me so...

I'm older now so most of my guy friends are boo'd up and all that, but even to this day I still have a hard time finding women that don't get on my nerves, but at the same time I've never really had any issues with women like some of my other friends have. Like somebody else mentioned I grew around a lot of guys...I'm sure that has a lot to do with it

and if it's a woman I'm interested in it's always a red flag.

I hear it most about women who work corporate now...I've heard a few women say they hate working with majority women because of the drama, gossip, jealousy, etc etc

... they stare at me while i ... crave! you.

And far to presumptuous for any honest objective dialogue to be had.



#bait

So ridiculously stupid.

'why don't some women get along with other women?'

is that safe enough?

So on the one hand, I can empathize a woman wanting to check out of the drama.

On the other hand, not being able to get along with "your own" is a red flag to me. Sure, maybe she hung with some catty women before... but writing off ALL women suggests SHE is the problem.

so, what if she was 'smoking hot', and prone to female-haters?

vs Aaron Hernandez

Who only wants to bone them.


*peeks from gender wars foxhole*

and sometimey. Im easy to get along with, but i think i come across as funny acting to most women, whereas guys dont really notice so its easier for me. My best friend of 13yrs is a male. Its really no upkeep with our friendship. He calls, i pick up and thats that. You have to put in work to maintain a normal friendship, and i can be lazy and admittedly selfish when it comes to that. I just stay away.

And we've been friends since high school.

is this what you tell yourself to make it feel OK?

That will never get crossed.

about him having a female bestie.

all three of yall hang out?

you get along great with her?

no phoniness involved?

... and have you effectively backed-off since the marriage?

and while SHE may not cross that boundary HE may be rubbing his hands like Baby

She's cordial but i dont think she really likes me like that.

Its really him that maintains the friendship. O be in my own world trying to solve my own personal issues. He calls every few days, and thats that. I dont have much to fall back from.

with other women because women are people

"the media" makes it seem like women hang gang deep
and TaylorSwift

admitting it is young because the younger confuse
a certain kind of honesty with realness

as well as not understanding how a man can not be a friend

having the core group of four or less women is how it goes

part of the deal with marriage is getting rid of the
peripheral friends so a kind of single woman will always suffer...

That have personal problems worth me on some hater type shit, offline that is. It's never women.

let Fishgrease give you all of lifes answers.

I'm very cut and dry. Very straight to the point. Very fuck your feelings. I have female friends. Most my friends are women but they're all pretty similar to me.

We don't lie or sugar coat for each other. I grew up with 5 older brothers, I was always teased and taunted to suck it up and take it like a man. I can't stand chicks who get their feelings hurt and become sell outs, or think the world revolves around them.

I can't get along with men who act like women for those reasons.

it's quite disturbing. maybe a sign of the times.

it's the gossiping, constant sizing up, and picking apart, etc.

women whom I consider my sisters


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I'm also somewhat attractive. Not a good combination.

Women and men who have been forced to interact with me on a more personal level, bc of office space or even as far back as HS have always had to stop and proclaim, "I thought you were so conceited and uppity! you are pretty cool"

Pretty dern sad. Unless I'm forced on you, I come off conceited and uppity. Far from it. Pretty down to earth. Oh well. I'll never be outgoing.

The lady friends I do make tend to have years on me.

I love the ladies. Glad God blessed me with 4 awesome sisters and we are close.

I have more women friends now. Some of that can be attributed to being a mom, but some of it is because I know what personality types I mesh with. It's not all women, it's some women and some men, for that matter. All of my friends are the type of people who, no matter how long it's been since we spoke, when we get together its instant closeness. People who need daily maintenance and affirmation from their friends don't eff with me.

but of course this is OKP

or.

'other women don't fuck with me, so fuck 'em. i think niggas are easier to be around'

im curious if this just happens with young women, thus something that is simply 'grown out of'.

of course it's a personality thing. but the women self describe being turned off by personalities of ... other women.

I said no

cuz it aint

and added more

I want to really believe that young people grow out of this thinking.

and you're explaining that they don't.

is this gender-specific?

do you have experience of a man exclaiming - 'i dont fuck with other guys'?

matter of fact...daily


men...yeah I've heard it b4..


the young chix just say it louder

All that other shit is extra/trolling so w/e.

could be their fault, could be circumstances.

i knew one chick who didn't get along with women because SHE was a snake and couldn't see it.

and usually indicative of an inability to stay drama free.

To be clear, I am a woman. My username for some reason comes off as masculine. And sometimes people think I'm a guy.

Whenever I've had relationships with 'girly-girl'types, it never ends well because she has some sort of weird idea about me. My women friends are also women who don't check for girly-girls. We NEVER fight, we love men, we don't have to text each other all day long, we don't go to the bathroom together. We don't get upset when another woman fixes a plate for our dude. We're VERY secure with ourselves, and girly-girls don't know how to handle it.