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Topic subjectSo you've been having friendly convo for a month with a girl from Tinder
Topic URLhttp://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=12769600
12769600, So you've been having friendly convo for a month with a girl from Tinder
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 02:45 PM
You've been out twice for friendly drinks and dinner to get to know each other, and she cooked for you once. You've texted each other every day, all friendly, never even kissed or even come close to it.
One morning you wake up, look at Facebook and see..
"**** is in a relationship with ****"

What would you do?
12769601, Move on.
Posted by Latina212, Wed Apr-01-15 02:46 PM
12769602, unless she mentioned it to me, i would act like it doesn't exist.
Posted by Deadzombie, Wed Apr-01-15 02:47 PM
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12769604, Shiiiiiit, its on your status. YOu better mention to remove that shit. lol
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 02:47 PM
12769619, nah. it's best to play it cool. you could be stumbling upon
Posted by Deadzombie, Wed Apr-01-15 02:51 PM
one of the best situations ever.

you got a woman cooking for you, having a good time together, and with no issue.

you'd rather be that guy than the boyfriend.

the boyfriend gotta deal with all her bullshit.

you just get the good shit.

...


but, at this point in the relationship.

if she doesn't mention it outloud. it doesn't exist.
12769643, Remember that episode when Will Smith was dating Queen Latifah?
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 02:59 PM
Staight up the same situation.
He aint trying to be with her like that.
12769656, you calling the young lady fat?
Posted by Deadzombie, Wed Apr-01-15 03:02 PM
12769663, Im just sayin... its the same situation. lol
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 03:04 PM
12769666, fat women give the best head.
Posted by Deadzombie, Wed Apr-01-15 03:05 PM
12769686, I was about to say, "nah, ugly women do". Then I had a flashback and had
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 03:15 PM
to backspace.
12769689, ^^^ troof.com
Posted by PoppaGeorge, Wed Apr-01-15 03:19 PM

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Like there is stupid, and then there is you, and then there is dead. - VAsBestBBW

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12769664, big boneded
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Apr-01-15 03:05 PM
12769607, Charge it to the game
Posted by MEAT, Wed Apr-01-15 02:48 PM
12769608, Is the **** your name or someone else?
Posted by PimpTrickGangstaClik, Wed Apr-01-15 02:48 PM
12769611, naw not me. lol
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 02:50 PM
Happened to someone I know
12769633, Ok. I thought you (someone you know) caught feelings...
Posted by PimpTrickGangstaClik, Wed Apr-01-15 02:54 PM
And another dude came through and swiped right into the number 1 spot.

12769612, lol right.
Posted by Cenario, Wed Apr-01-15 02:50 PM
12769616, I mean I can't make you believe me. *shrugs*
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 02:51 PM
12769636, no i was saying lol and thats a big distinction lol
Posted by Cenario, Wed Apr-01-15 02:55 PM
12769627, I'd be like wow you met a guy named ***** thats amazing.
Posted by ShinobiShaw, Wed Apr-01-15 02:53 PM
n/m
12769629, lmao!
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 02:53 PM
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12769630, I agree w/DZ, but be prepared for her to cut you off
Posted by Wonderl33t, Wed Apr-01-15 02:54 PM

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http://i.imgur.com/81XSukd.jpg <-- Happy trails
12769645, No bullshit that would be a shot to my ego
Posted by ambient1, Wed Apr-01-15 02:59 PM
but I'd of course charge it to the game

but it would be a gut punch...like damn bish
12769647, find a mirror and take a long look at myself
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Apr-01-15 03:00 PM
12769688, lol
Posted by initiationofplato, Wed Apr-01-15 03:17 PM
12769648, Texted every day was when I knew it wasn't going anywhere
Posted by Atillah Moor, Wed Apr-01-15 03:00 PM
12769661, Is his name Carlton?
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Apr-01-15 03:04 PM
12769749, George Michael Bluth
Posted by Atillah Moor, Wed Apr-01-15 03:50 PM
12769649, She could be doing it to drop someone persistent.
Posted by initiationofplato, Wed Apr-01-15 03:01 PM
It may be a "for fun" thing. You should just ask her direct.
12769665, Hypothetical You can't be surprised.
Posted by Teknontheou, Wed Apr-01-15 03:05 PM
A month with frequent communication, three dates and no kiss is a huge red flag by itself.

At least Hypothetical You got some home made grub out of it.
12769673, Clear this up. Did she jump the gun or did yo catch feelings early?
Posted by PimpTrickGangstaClik, Wed Apr-01-15 03:09 PM

12769675, maybe she wants to test his reaction and have him make the move.
Posted by initiationofplato, Wed Apr-01-15 03:10 PM
12769682, She jumped the gun and caught feelings too fast.
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 03:14 PM
I thought there was supposed to be a meeting before doing such things.
12769696, ok. so yeah. your original post failed to make this connection.
Posted by Deadzombie, Wed Apr-01-15 03:24 PM
because of all the ******* and ********

you should typed *yourname*.

anywho.

i want to resubmit.

i would de-friend that mutha fucka so quick.
12769708, I thought 2 dates and friendly convo for a month woulda gave that away
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 03:29 PM
but I digress. lol
12769690, first of all, two dates and you are already facebook buddies? FAIL
Posted by double negative, Wed Apr-01-15 03:19 PM
12769702, Alot of times she'll send the request that early.
Posted by Teknontheou, Wed Apr-01-15 03:26 PM
You can say no, of course, but that could create possible tension.
12769691, is she hot?
Posted by SoWhat, Wed Apr-01-15 03:20 PM
12769698, She must be if dude gives a shit.
Posted by Teknontheou, Wed Apr-01-15 03:24 PM
12769710, if she's hot i wouldn't trip.
Posted by SoWhat, Wed Apr-01-15 03:29 PM
if she's not i might back away. slowly.

well, unless the meal she made was particularly excellent.
12769712, If she was hot I doubt it woulda been an issue.
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 03:30 PM
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12769723, why date her if she's not hot?
Posted by SoWhat, Wed Apr-01-15 03:36 PM
12769724, dude could be blind. heat don't matter then.
Posted by Deadzombie, Wed Apr-01-15 03:38 PM
12769737, never even kissed?? over how long?
Posted by EMATI, Wed Apr-01-15 03:42 PM
no sexual tension at all?
body language wasn't giving you any ideas or clues?
sometimes i have liked spending time but not necessarily feel sparks
if he doesn't make a move, i assume it's mutual and eventually curiosity gets the better of me if he doesn't put it all out there

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Someone out there knows what happened to Mitrice Richardson
12769740, friendly convo over the course of 30 days and never flirty?
Posted by EMATI, Wed Apr-01-15 03:45 PM
i also always assume that they are seeing other women



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Someone out there knows what happened to Mitrice Richardson
12769739, the guy never tried to kiss her ? he friendzoned himself.
Posted by ndibs, Wed Apr-01-15 03:44 PM
and or the girl never knew he was interested...
12769751, that was pretty much his intention
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 03:52 PM
12769758, but now he is catching feelings since she got somebody?
Posted by legsdiamond, Wed Apr-01-15 03:57 PM
Or is he in a relationship and didnt even know it?
12769743, get her pregnant. if she wants to up the ante, UP THE ANTE
Posted by atruhead, Wed Apr-01-15 03:46 PM
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12769769, isn't that all straight up Tinder misuse and abuse
Posted by PG, Wed Apr-01-15 04:12 PM
I don't know a thing bout all that but it seems to me that Tinder is not being used properly at all in this poast.
12769771, What is friendly drinks and dinner?
Posted by SimplyHannah, Wed Apr-01-15 04:14 PM
Dutch?
12769773, Yup
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Wed Apr-01-15 04:15 PM
12769940, She probably assumed that you just wanted to be friends & kept it moving
Posted by SimplyHannah, Wed Apr-01-15 08:29 PM
12769786, WHAT IS THIS SHIT? LOL!
Posted by Very-Effortless, Wed Apr-01-15 04:24 PM
I've been seeing someone for 4 months, been on 1-2 dates every week and we ain't even FB friends, let alone in a relationship.

Who are these women?
12769788, unlike you, she knows what she wants.
Posted by Deadzombie, Wed Apr-01-15 04:26 PM
12769872, lol
Posted by Kim Jong Trill, Wed Apr-01-15 05:57 PM

Fuck your fort!
12769791, Yeah, but do yall be heavy petting?
Posted by Teknontheou, Wed Apr-01-15 04:28 PM
12769820, 2 dates a week for 4 months? Y'all go together
Posted by PimpTrickGangstaClik, Wed Apr-01-15 04:51 PM

12769795, not possible
Posted by luminous, Wed Apr-01-15 04:32 PM
He has to approve the relationship status for it to actually show up on her profile with his name in it.
12769861, never underestimate how much women like to talk/text
Posted by J_Stew, Wed Apr-01-15 05:44 PM
men often mistake this for them liking us