help them out financially, like it reflects poorly on them that they are able to enjoy the spoils of wealth without having to bust their ass for it.

why not just leave well enough alone?

It became obvious that they were skirting the truth of the matter with some bullshit thought that must have popped into their head at the very last second since they are not usually 'confronted' in that way... who is the bigger dick, them for lying or yall for putting them in the situation where they felt the need to?