>to giving a charitable donation to someone who's accomplished
>less than you, but somehow has more.

Would you be more comfortable giving a donation to somebody who
has accomplished more?

I don't think that has to do with accomplishment - it's more that you were
expecting them to live in a certain type of house and they didn't, and it
clearly bothered you.

I understand the visceral response, but I don't understand the need to
call them out on it verbally when you're a guest in their home.


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