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Topic subjectThis example reinforces the belief that chivalry is linked to chauvinism
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12763850, This example reinforces the belief that chivalry is linked to chauvinism
Posted by dafriquan, Thu Mar-26-15 11:49 AM
He thinks he is being helpful but he is actually being patronizing.
The conflict arises because his help is not beneficial to her.

It gets complex because sometimes the patronizing/chauvinist attitude would not cause conflict if the end result was deemed beneficial by the recepient.

The good type of chivalrous dude (if there is such a thing) is probably one who is equally as gracious and generous to both genders.