>>"And its just as likely to be a woman as to be a man who
>>enforces the homophobic/touch averse stigma."
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>>>the invariable dude loves to pop up in the convo
>>>"but women too"
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>now look at daryl's comments in here
>you want to reinforce Darryl?
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>you see legs ponying up below?
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>you don't see the pattern?


Lol, I mean there's a reason I didn't cosign everything he said in here.
That reason is that I don't agree.
I think we just have to know we all have a role in dismantling this particular stigma.