Much different world from the folks most of us interact with outside of here.

>affectionate to the point where they were super touchy
>feely?
>What if they were holding hands all the time?
>Hugging alot
>Laying their heads in one another's laps
>I mean just like you see girlfriends doing.
>
>I already know a couple of yall here would be like "nah they
>gay".
>"down low" dudes got alotta women shook.
>Hell I was asked about my sexuality by a woman because I don't
>care to catch football on sunday's.
>Now you couple that with the fact that I hug everybody in the
>room, regardless of gender,
>race or anything else, and I KNOW alotta women take a step
>back until they catch me
>watching a woman's ass walk by or something.
>
>I bring up these points because in reality, alotta the things
>we do and don't do, as men,
>are determined by how women feel about them. I've personally
>grown out of that (or at least
>realized it doesn't serve me very well). So on top of men not
>trying to appear gay or
>trying to appear uber masculine, I think the role that women
>play in why men do that
>is MUCH bigger than you realize. Men assert dominance because
>they know women
>go for it, and often the more masculine he seems, the more
>women will readily deal with him.
>The vast majority of the time, that stuff is about "the hoes"
>as they say.
>I don't wanna justify men running after unevolved women, but
>alotta women who claim
>to be evolved be on that tho.
>
>So as we teach boys to be more affectionate or that it's ok to
>touch, we have to teach
>girls the same thing, or it won't be long before the boys
>abandon that concept when
>all the girls go for the homophobe isn't touching other
>dudes.
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