>can't be used because it doesn't fit your narrative.

That's actually what you're doing. But it's wrong when you think we're doing it? OK.

>
>dudes in here have opened up but it's all lies because you
>guys have all the answers and need us to be phobes.

Where did I say it was all lies?

>
>Our words and experiences can't satisfy you because you need
>this to be true.

As if none of us have comparable words and experiences, and it can't somehow apply that those won't satisfy you because you need this not to be true? There's that good patriarchal double standard again.

>
>take a peak in here for more examples:
>http://board.okayplayer.com/okp.php?az=show_topic&forum=4&topic_id=12763452&mesg_id=12763452&page=
>

That's a pretty sparsely populated post in comparison to all the "no homos" I've seen on the boards.