if she was at a gay party, or if the majority of guys somewhere were gay, because they would ALWAYS hug when they saw each other, with no handshake or anything.

I started noticing it with certain crowds, and she was 100% right. My boy came to an event with me, and was saying he got the vibe that it was a lot of gay guys there, but that they weren't obviously gay...so I told him the hug thing...and literally 30 seconds later, he saw two dudes hug, and we fell out laughing.

But with that, I have a homeboy who's straight, and he's always like "man, give me a hug!" on some bromance shit, and it feels weird now. Especially since dude got a Miguel cut. My 6'4 320 lb cousin always wants to give me hugs too, just to enforce his size LOL.