We're telling you that we hold hands in prayer, we hug when we greet, we hug and comfort each other in times of trouble, we throw our arms around each other's shoulders in camaraderie..

But it's "Do you kiss??? Do you walk down the street holding hands???"

I don't kiss or hold hands with my platonic women friends either.

Sorry if that doesn't work for you or fit the narrative you are pushing for.