>Homophobia and preference are two different things.
>
>At a certain point, a man typically prefers that touch from a
>woman.
>
>There's a line between that preference (i.e. because it
>fucking feels better to him) and homophobia.
>
>Simply put, once boys discover girls they spend most of their
>time running around with half woods chasing them, and prefer
>that over snapping a pic on another boy's lap.
>
>As a man, you typically no longer desire ongoing comfort from
>the strong hands of a man unless it's a major situation.
>

So I don't think this can apply across the board as if there's no context to how that attitude comes about.

Different cultures have different attitudes to contact between men.