Don't even take that personal. You gotta be a bit fucked up and dysfunctional to come here and find entertainment through relation on a day to day, year to year basis.

On top of that I'm not even advocating granola parenting. What I'm saying is to take it situation by situation and assess as is. And that there are times when tantrums are healthy.

Your opinion, my opinion, or whoevers doesn't dispute the science. And there's ways to bring ideals of the past to situations of the present.

We used to do non stop push-ups before we learned about calisthenics. We used to treat illnesses with cocaine. We practiced Freudian junk science before it was throughly debunked. There's tons of things we used to do, that we learned to improve upon and parenting isn't an exclusion.