it'd been about 24 hours since we met

i asked him what he was looking for in a woman

he gave me a pretty generic list - christian, smart, financially savvy, etc.

but he ended it with, 'she has to be freaky with whore'ish like tendencies'

WHAT?!

who says that to someone they are getting to know?! yuck.

that is tacky and classless.

He said he hated sushi
I asked him if he ever had it
He said no


That said so much to me ..

Get all butthurt about a JOKE that I make and I'm out... no exceptions. Not apologizing for someone's unhappiness at life.

maybe its you.

given the option of a man who compliments you vs a man who makes jokes at your expense guess what most sane healthy women are going to choose?

you ain't vying to be one of his boys.

>given the option of a man who compliments you vs a man who
>makes jokes at your expense guess what most sane healthy women
>are going to choose?
>

>
>maybe its you.
>
>given the option of a man who compliments you vs a man who
>makes jokes at your expense guess what most sane healthy women
>are going to choose?
>

But see how you took it there, to something negative... immediately? You'd be dismissed.

>But see how you took it there, to something negative...
>immediately? You'd be dismissed.

lol.

for themselves and just roll over because they don't like to "make waves." there is nothing worth fighting for. not their jobs, not their happiness, not their wellbeing...nothing. they're just huge punks.
i can't deal. men like that make me angry.

another big turn off is supreme cheapness. mofo couldn't even pay $3 to park his own car and meet for coffee, smh. deleted.

and have no opinions on shit like politics, etc

Conversely, if they're super engaged and know more than me ... Nothing sexier. Might as well just go back to his place.

get it out there in the beginning. no sense in courting for 3 months only to realize you made a lights off, under the covers, no sweating ass mistake.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.

after eating food.

I can't imagine anything grosser or unappealing a girl doing at a dinner table.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson


"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

>I can't imagine anything grosser or unappealing a girl doing at a
>dinner table.

if you leave a wack ass'd tip
i'm not going out with you again.
i had a guy leave just the change from a bill on a breakfast date
i made mention of it
he said something like
if she wanted to make money she wouldn't be a waitress.
i added a few bills and had him drop me off.
nah, son
you don't even need to escort me to my door
ain't nuthin happenin.

does it really matter?

wonder what bin's doing?
http://i.imgur.com/phECCMp.jpg

Show any of those and I'm AUDI. I used to be the kind of guy who would try to 'work through it' - especially if I liked you/you're fine.

Now - I don't even bother. I know that shit ain't gon work.

he put it out there and you werent feeling it

however

there might be someone who does totally respond to that

so

YMMV

and they probably jumped on it

i'm not a prude by any means but I'm a laaaadyyyyy

if he'd said he was looking for someone who was sexually open minded, i wouldve been like cool!

but 'freaky, whore'ish like tendencies?'

nah.

then it's definitely already over.
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http://i.imgur.com/81XSukd.jpg

Dat shit gets NO PLAY with me.

i mean
shes a celebrity to some ppl, well a lot of ppl
but
i had no idea who she was...never seen her before in my life
until i met her
but a nigga know who she is now
i saw some of those videos and smh..been tryin not to say
something stupid ever since
the getting to know you stage has been interesting
to say the least

like a social media personality
or someone who stays mentioned on the gossip sites?

she do music
thats all i can say

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forcing myself to actually respond to you is like bathing in ebola virus. - Binlahab

Like there is stupid, and then there is you, and then there is dead. - VAsBestBBW

R.I.P. Disco D

me no likey.

deal breaker.

as if I was supposed to be flattered to be on the list. I paid for my 2nd beer (he'd bought the first) and left.

Like blowing a gasket beyond what's justifiable for whatever the situation is.

(I smoke Camel Lights)

But I had dinner or drinks anyway.

We were late 20s

She had graduated and then kept trying to reschedule.

Wears wedge heels
dislikes kissing
wears too much makeup

before moving to east Africa. Like teasing with sex offers to just to stay the night but not having sex and then talking about where are things going.

took a chick out to dinner. Picked her up and the smell of chitlins and open asshole wafted through the air at random. I thought it was her neighborhood...

Got to the spot and the smell kept hittin me then I realized I only smelled it when she was talking.

I tried to get her to have a drink of wine and got extra impatient when the food was taking a bit longer than it should have. I offered her a handful of dinner mints after we got done.

no kiss and no call back. In fact, I blocked her number from calling my home phone.

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forcing myself to actually respond to you is like bathing in ebola virus. - Binlahab

Like there is stupid, and then there is you, and then there is dead. - VAsBestBBW

R.I.P. Disco D

Dig it,

I'm out on a first date wit' dis Breezy....

We sippin' wine while waitin' for our food to come out n shit.

Shit musta got good to ol' girl 'cus outta nowhere,...she cold grabs
both my hands and holds them in her palms and stares ever-so-deeply into my eyes with the tilted-to-the-side taco neck all dreamy like...

On some Cinderella type shit.


Batsignal den a muhfukka, Sun!

I take heed and issue with a woman that's always talking about what other people have or done, and not what she's doing for herself.

i keeeeeeeed... o_O