I couldnt make all this up if I tried

- Dude was confiding in a coworker about his marriage troubles

- I guess the coworker caught feelings.

- Turns out the coworker is insane, she went through the company's emergency contacts and hit up his wife to basically inform her they had been talking.

- Dude never beat, but he kissed the coworker once.

- the coworker told his wife, "he's gonna be with me and my daughter" on some Jerry Springer shit

- the wife said he has to quit that job and leave the apartment while they try to work it out (I say that's her pride talking about him quitting his job and hell no if his name is on the lease)

- he moved back in, the coworker contacted the wife to let her know they were still talking

- also the wife contacted HR trying to get the coworker fired

Poll question: This crazy emotional affair: You be the judge

Poll result (11 votes) The wife has to cut her losses. (3 votes) Vote He didnt beat (yet), they can work it out. He shouldnt have move out if his name is on the lease either (4 votes) Vote The wife has to fight the coworker on general principle (3 votes) Vote Other (1 votes) Vote

How you gonna half ass cheat and get the full ass crazy?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b5-iJUuPWis

dude obv got a foot outside the door.

Next job will probably be the same thing. Let him keep his job and his new woman.

the coworker has a reputation for being a homewrecker

it's even worse if the husband knew about the reputation and still confided in the homewrecker

#TeamFOH

lived in philly, bumped into a girl from Pittsburgh who went to my church and she was all grown up now.

My SO and I weren't together at the time so we started kicking it. I went home one time and she was home as well so we went out. Started realizing in casual convo she was crazy so I didn't touch her.

A year later I bring my SO to Pittsburgh and ole girl rolls up on me at a family function and asked "I HEARD YOU BROUGHT SOMEONE HOME, WHERE IS SHE?"

I was thinking to myself "damn, imagine if you touched her?"

My dad even warned me "son, all the women in that family are crazy"

to this day my dad swears I hit it based on the way she acts.

I think circumstances can someone fall off who in another circumstances wouldn't even think about it.



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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson


"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

And she's a complete and total fool if she takes him back if he doesn't quit. If he's not willing to do a complete about face/no contact plan, she's wasting her time to continue messing with him. That's not excessive ego and pride to expect that.

oh wait, thats the other thread

>I couldnt make all this up if I tried
>
>- Dude was confiding in a coworker about his marriage
>troubles
>
>- I guess the coworker caught feelings.
>
>- Turns out the coworker is insane, she went through the
>company's emergency contacts and hit up his wife to basically
>inform her they had been talking.
>
>- Dude never beat, but he kissed the coworker once.
>
>- the coworker told his wife, "he's gonna be with me and my
>daughter" on some Jerry Springer shit
>
>- the wife said he has to quit that job and leave the
>apartment while they try to work it out (I say that's her
>pride talking about him quitting his job and hell no if his
>name is on the lease)
>
>- he moved back in, the coworker contacted the wife to let her
>know they were still talking
>
>- also the wife contacted HR trying to get the coworker fired
>

If I'm in his position here's what I do:

DENY EVERYTHING because this chick cray cray. Seriously sit wifey down and say the following:

Me: Are you really going to believe the words of a woman that hit you up through the emergency contacts? I don't even know this chick and have never talked to her about us.

Me: In addition to that, do you really think I'm throwing away us over THIS CHICK?

Wife: But she told me everything you liar!! *throws show at me*

Me: I'm damn sure not about to talk to her ever again. As proof of my sincerity, I'm filing a restraining order and contacting HR. We need to work this out for our kid.

Nah but really it sounds like he strayed from a bad option to a worse one and needs to start fresh.

If he REALLY loves the wife, he should battle it out and stay. I don't think it's irreparable. But it's a tough situation and this is why getting involved in any way with a second person can be so risky. Remember how many crazy motherfuckers you passed over when you were dating? It was easy to just not call back and deal with any fallout solo when you were single. Now you got your family and professional life fucked up behind some frustration and a KISS. L.

Dealing with that type of bullshit. She should move on. Duded fucked up. It's over.

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson


"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're

The more he should be thinking marriage > a job (where he's fucked up his reputation anyway). He's going to be the one taking the lifestyle hit, not seeing his kids, paying child support etc.

However, it's still marriage and the rules are different. That said, I plan on cutting ties and going on if it were me & I've already told her that.

pics or it didn't happen

i mean, he messed around with someone from work of all places.

so the crux is mostly just confiding in the next woman

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Shit, im tryna know too.

The wife should forgive her husband. But, he needs to cut off all ties with that woman. She's nuts!!!!! Like psycho nuts! Why keep talking with her if she contacted your wife?!!!!

This man had a physical and emotional affair. The moment he kissed her, he took it to another level. So, while he got involved with a crazy deranged chick, he has to work that out with his wife. Its good he never slept with her. But, this is why you don't get involved with your co-workers, and understand that some friendships have agendas so you cannot tell all your personal business. ESPECIALLY if it involves your spouse.

go into finding a suitable man. I am so glad I'm not a woman. Yall basically, have to put up with some sh*t along the way or take the chance of being cat lady with no man in the future.

That sh*t is scary...

A single man ALWAYS has other options out there. We date younger and we are the pursuers of relationships. A single woman eventually will reach her expiration date. At that point the amount of settling for a man's missteps increases ten fold.

Good luck ladies.

>Good luck ladies.


overall i think you are right
but there are hella variables involved
some women are way more likely to get chose regardless of baggage, age, etc

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>>Good luck ladies.
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>overall i think you are right
>but there are hella variables involved
>some women are way more likely to get chose regardless of
>baggage, age, etc

The next dude won't necessarily be anymore faithful.
She gotta way the pros and the cons.

If it's a call center type job, be out
But if it's a career, can't just quit because of emotions

The job market got better, but not THAT much better, to the point where you quit a job and another one is just an interview away.

trying to get him fired by claiming he did something inappropriate
she's already crazy and now that the wife is trying to get her fired, im sure she's willing to go that extra mile too