12758885, why wouldn't i know that? Posted by Joe Corn Mo, Mon Mar-23-15 08:38 AM
that is all the more reason why it's a bad idea to try to solve all problems by yourself.
in fact, you just gave an example of you, a man talking about shit with your SO, to decide on the best course of action.
you're SO didn't say, suck it up.
the two of you collaborated to find a workable way forward.
which is the only point i am making.
don't keep every problem to yourself. talk about it. ppl might have a better idea than you.
or they might have something they can offer.
not saying they will.
they might.
it's good to ask.
>>If I'm going thru it there's no organization to help me >> >>If I can't pay my rent for whatever reason I'd be a homeless >>motherfucker > >When a state tightens the requirements for food stamps, >welfare, etc the FIRST people to get cut are single, childless >men. It happened in Michigan back in the 90's. A grip of dudes >that couldn't find work for whatever reason suddenly found >themselves without food. > >When I lost my job, I was going to call up and apply for food >stamps/snap so we could eat. The wife and her moms told me to >let HER do it 'cause if it went under my name we might not get >it or get it severely reduced. > >One of the homies got sole custody of his infant kids 'cause >moms got hemmed up on some foul charges. He needed some extra >money for food for the kids and ended up struggling to make >ends meet 'cause ain't no WIC-type of program for men. > >Ain't no programs for men... period. We're expected to suck it >up, dust ourselves off, and pull a job out our asses to make >money to support ourselves. > >--------------------------- > >forcing myself to actually respond to you is like bathing in >ebola virus. - Binlahab > >Like there is stupid, and then there is you, and then there is >dead. - VAsBestBBW > >R.I.P. Disco D
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