they've been married for almost 50 yrs. they've been to hell and back. if she didn't care about his emotional needs (which are legion - he was a raging alcoholic for their first 15 yrs or so) they wouldn't still be together, i think.

and i have worked w/ppl who care deeply about the plight of homeless ppl - many (if not most) of whom are men. so i disagree pretty strongly that ppl don't care about homeless men b/c they are men.

if ppl don't care about the plight of men i don't think it's b/c they're men i think it's b/c ppl don't care about the plight of others generally.

but maybe i don't know what y'all mean by 'care'.