My hubby was mad that I basically reduced him to a black woman. But, I told him that I just mean that you are so bad ass at your job that everyone wants you on their team and that in any situation, they are going to come to you. Even if it means infringing on your time to get what they want. You are the Engineering Genius aka Olivia Pope - Fixer at your job. Own it.

Demand that money and the job YOU want to keep you there, or move on to a company that is going to pay you what you are really worth.