>It's coming across as supporting what sepia called "that
>southern belle crap"

i don't have a problem w/that SBC if all parties involved are into it and no one is being exploited or taken for granted. if everyone is getting what they want then that's awesome.

if a woman wants to make her man happy by wearing high heels around the house and she's fine w/it then i love it for her.

>And even your clarification still sounds too close to you have
>to please your partner sexually and visually

uh..yeah. you do. you have to please your partner sexually and visually. yes. what that looks like will vary wildly. but, yes. and it's true for both spouses in any given marriage. yes.

>Women have already internalized that excessively and that's
>actually what Eva has internalized and is referring to
>It's very Cosmo

*shrugs*

Cosmo ain't wrong all the time.