It's coming across as supporting what sepia called "that southern belle crap"
And even your clarification still sounds too close to you have to please your partner sexually and visually
Women have already internalized that excessively and that's actually what Eva has internalized and is referring to
It's very Cosmo
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When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. Live so that when you die, you rejoice, and the world cries.
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You cannot hate people for their own good.