>>how many of yall cosigning this shit actually live with an
>>SO?
>
>i do.
>
>and her point is well taken - relationships can become
>strained when folks stop trying to be attractive for each
>other.
>
>stop focusing on the sweats. it's not about the sweats. it's
>about the spouses remembering the importance of seduction.
>
>her point w/the sweats was simple - many women wear them b/c
>they're comfortable w/o any thought about how attractive they
>appear. when married women stop thinking about trying to be
>sexy for their spouse it can create trouble. or it's a sign
>of existing trouble.
>
>that's it. that's all she's saying, i think.
>

Nah...I think this is what YOU are saying, lol