>how many of yall cosigning this shit actually live with an
>SO?

i do.

and her point is well taken - relationships can become strained when folks stop trying to be attractive for each other.

stop focusing on the sweats. it's not about the sweats. it's about the spouses remembering the importance of seduction.

her point w/the sweats was simple - many women wear them b/c they're comfortable w/o any thought about how attractive they appear. when married women stop thinking about trying to be sexy for their spouse it can create trouble. or it's a sign of existing trouble.

that's it. that's all she's saying, i think.