Sweats are welcomed in my house. My wife has a phatty, so the sweats just accentuate it. She puts it on with nothing under most times...sheeeiittt

The headscarf though...that means she's done for the day with EVERYBODY (doesn't bother me one way or the other)

It's cool to want to look good/great for your SO. It's better (imo) when you don't have to try and your SO still can't keep their hands off you. If you think you look your worst and your SO is still very much attracted to you, you've won at life