but every relationship has its own culture. if thats their culture, it looks bad on the outside, but could be healthy in the inside.

i remember one time i was in vegas at a pool party and me and my friends were trying to flirt with a bodyguard or bouncer. i can't remember what i said or did--maybe i touched the dudes muscles or something--and he looked right through me and said "only my wife can touch me" like he was a robot.

that wife is probably way more secure in her marriage than most.