"Hello, I just got married, so I'm letting everyone I use to date or flirt with know my new status. I'm reaching out to you to let you know that I can no longer be in contact with you. I know it's been awhile since we have communicated, so this should not be a problem."

Also, he CC'd his wife, and it was obvious that he BCC'd whoever else.

She broke up with him maybe 7-8 years ago, and he would occasionally text her with small talk 1-2 times a year. They probably haven't seen each other in over five years.

let's wish that relationship well

She got that butta love

but then again it probably works for the married couple involved and thats the most important thing.

but every relationship has its own culture. if thats their culture, it looks bad on the outside, but could be healthy in the inside.

i remember one time i was in vegas at a pool party and me and my friends were trying to flirt with a bodyguard or bouncer. i can't remember what i said or did--maybe i touched the dudes muscles or something--and he looked right through me and said "only my wife can touch me" like he was a robot.

that wife is probably way more secure in her marriage than most.

for some basic info.

like this.

i never imagined it looking so stupid and goofy.

does the 'cc' make it worse? i think it does.

thanks for this.

Now, girls who may not even care about you or be thinking about you can easily google Kanigeta Whuat and find all her info, even if just to see if she's cute or not.

"Who the f*ck is Darnathan?"

Not knowing thats really Dey Dey from back in the day.

either she's paranoid as hell or he did some shit that would justify her being that paranoid.
your homegirl got the sweet end of that deal either way.

Im guessing they had issues before marriage with him keeping in contact with certain people. So when they tied the knot she let him know what he had to do.

Wifey was probably standing over him as he typed it.

cause you know she is reading his emails.

fuck around and we'll be watching it all on Snapped.

base, you're just inviting drama.

sneaking around behind someone's back. But it does make it more exciting"

And if that was his wife's idea and he did it, he STILL corny as fuck for doing it, on top of being married to an insecure broad.

he had to give her a reason to go here.

not a reply all, but a reply from an ex who just wants to be messy. he's opened himself up to a possible mess of a situation.


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I don't even love life no more, my niggas I just live it.... Jean Grae

im wondering, as a man, how it would feel to receive something like this.

like, a woman from your past hits you with an email out of nowhere talking about 'you aint getting this nomore'.

that might make it a fun challenge? no?

there has to be at least one recipient that's thinking 'sheeeeit - i'd fuck again'. especially if the wife is pretty.

MKE ~~> ATL

but your homegirl received one, so he didn't ...

if u pickin up
what I'm puttin down

For the entry exams.

"I know it's been awhile since we have communicated ..."

he trying to convince the wife that he dont talk to them nomore.

but she aint been buying it.

they haven't talked or seen each other in a long time

maybe some of the the others, but not this one

that they text with small-talk once or twice a year since then.

get it?

or nah?

proper usage of 'or nah'

might not be that applicable to your friend but it's possible the email cleared things up for *some*body
on the surface dude was upfront with all potential parties involved and ppl are still calling him lame in here

did he send this to recipients that he'd not even had sex with yet?

i love everything about this story.

i wanna know how big the mail list was.

And they post their first initial before their posts so you know who is posting.

They are church-y though so I feel like it comes from that. Cuz he would be described as anything BUT a player. women would never be hollarin' at him anyways.

fuck. I just can't even fathom that shit

one of my artist homies had one like that too, his page is solo now

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folks LOVE drama.


"If you wanna help us, fine. Sit down with your kids and make 'em study at night...otherwise, shoot THIS mothaf*cka!" (c) Morgan Freeman,

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Vee is I and I am She

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You cannot hate people for their own good.

Let my love slide in and never slip out

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"Today is your day to have a better life -- it's your right."

wtf a letter 'pose to mean if niggas really wanna get it in??

She hasn't reached out to him first in over five years, it was always his random "hey how are you?" texts that came first.

Either that, or your homey got caught out there.

But I think she's cheating. Probably with a dude she used to mess with. Basically, she's the "ex" in the scenario that she projected onto her dude.

Homeboy needs to do some research.

And that shit is true. I had a jawn once who liked to get it in with her best friend, another female. The friend told me one day (she came onto me, actually it happened a few times) and one night when we were all wasted my chick was like "you want a trio? is that what YOU want?" Normally I'd have gone for it but I really found the friend unattractive. She was OK-looking, like I set her with a buddy once, but her whole vibe was nasty to me, and not in a good way.

Anyway, I didn't care, I mean I was fucking other people, too, and least of all I cared that she was with another girl. But she would CONSTANTLY accuse me of sleeping with this girl or trying to, in fact it was kind of her default defense in an argument (between her Latin blood and my Moroccan blood, there were many lol). One day I finally just lost my shit and said STOP TRYNA TO ACCUSE ME OF SOME SHIT YOU ARE DOING, SLUT! It didn't go over too well but we were nearing the finale anyway, and I got a solid month-plus out of fadeaway sex out of it.

Same shit happened to my homegirl. She went out with a couple she knew and her boyfriend was trying to get her to come home and "chill" (read: smash). She stayed out late drinking wine and came home and crashed. Old boy threw a shit fit. Later we came to find out he had fucked the girl in the couple, albeit before he and my friend were an item. The hypocrisy of that pretty much peaced their relationship, which was unfortunate.

I also saw this deflection at work with a married chick I used to smang. Every time her man would catch her, she flipped it around on him like he was fucking around. It was kinda sad but I admit I saw humor in it also.

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"Today is your day to have a better life -- it's your right."

Its obvious that Dude is hemped-up wit' a looney-toons ass muhfukka
but what I want to know is, "did she ask him to do this shit before OR after the broomhop?".

If she was already on that bullshit prior to broomhop then
there's something to be said for a Bruh that would knowingly
bite into such a shit sammich as this. Ain't enough SweetBabyRay's in the world to make dat shit taste better.


They marriage done already been doomed off rip and they barely out the gate.

Sheeeiitttt,...but they didn't have no honeymoon,....dem ninjas had a honeyeclipse.


*Pours out Likka for Sun*

someone with some authority in their lives or someone's whose advice they trust (like a pastor or therapist or something)

what dude follows kooky ass directions like this cuz his wife said so? He must have felt guilty, and this was freeing him from that.

the wording speaks volumes

if i was his boy, my side eye is everlasting

but fuck it, i aint gotta live with his wife, he does

i haven't laughed this hard at a post in a while.

kudos to everyone.

Mine basically went like...

"I apologize but my husband no longer wants me to have contact with you in any form. Please don't respond to this letter."

(Yes, it was a LONG time ago, so it was an actual letter...lol)

It's crazy to me that a person that you have had a relationship with, and maintained a friendship with (long distance) can switch off the friendship just like that...unless it it's insecurity of the spouse, and even with that...seems odd to me. Don't know if I could marry someone that could ask that of me, or expect it of me for that matter.

outside of anything, like for a long time after anything intimate stopped we still had a friendship and kind of a mentorship kinda thing (she was considerably older). she was like "but it's been years (read: two, and really more like one) since we did anything together academically, you need to pursue new mentors and relationships at your new institution."

i admit that i was still kinda sorta in love with her (and being much smarter than i, she knew it) but i tried to maintain a safe distance and keep things above board. her husband found a letter i had written her and flipped out, i later found out. the letter didn't contain anything romantic but i guess he got a vibe from it. before that he thought i was just a dude that he sent his kids a gift on their birthday and a friend of hers, though who knows what all she told him and when? i was kinda hurt by that but what can you do?

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

Feels like this was his last post. Ha.

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"what's a leader if he isn't reluctant"

His "year in review" DJ sets are great.

Just wish he still contributed here. He's a really good dude, as we all know.

his IG Live, especially during this quarantine, has been CLUTCH.

basically, he ain't got time for us and that's good.

even if they don't do the dramatic status change that profile pic usually changes and its like "oh, ok" lol

i saw a car the other day that had decals on the trunk saying "i have a girlfriend don't talk to me" in spanish lol