is it a fact he's being traumatized? is it trauma he'll never get over? will he cry and feel sad for a bit, but then realize he'll still be okay?

i'm not saying he is one way or the other, but if you make a child think they're being traumatized then chances are that'll feed off that and play the role.
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it's true what they say...people are strange, when you're strangers.

not compassionate....only polite.

I am not like you at all and i cannot pretend.