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Topic subjectwhen you realize YOU were deleted from someones Facebook
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12752517, when you realize YOU were deleted from someones Facebook
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 09:45 AM
when its someone you DO give a shit about
12752528, https://p.gr-assets.com/540x540/fit/hostedimages/1380352641/706039.gif
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Mon Mar-16-15 09:51 AM
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12752530, ^
Posted by initiationofplato, Mon Mar-16-15 09:52 AM
12752533, basically
Posted by teefiveten, Mon Mar-16-15 09:53 AM
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12752626, yep! LOL!
Posted by luminous, Mon Mar-16-15 10:26 AM
12752531, There's a certain actress that a lot of OKPs know
Posted by John Forte, Mon Mar-16-15 09:52 AM
One day, my wife mentioned something she posted on FB. I remarked that I hadn't seen anything from her in a while. I logged onto FB to discover than not only was I no longer her friend, but we had only one mutual friend, my wife. She had unfriended ALL of out mutual friends, but kept my wife (who I'm not sure she'd ever met). I assumed that she didn't unfriend my wife because she didn't remember who she was, but she commented on my wife's status recently. Bizarre.
12752536, happens. i used to post real emo 5 years back
Posted by double negative, Mon Mar-16-15 09:54 AM
12752540, reading your own old facebook posts
Posted by initiationofplato, Mon Mar-16-15 09:55 AM
http://persephonemagazine.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/facepalm-captain-picard.jpg
12752552, preeeeeeeeetty much
Posted by double negative, Mon Mar-16-15 10:00 AM
12752557, the struggle is real lol
Posted by initiationofplato, Mon Mar-16-15 10:02 AM
12752538, when its someone you DO give a shit about
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 09:55 AM
12752541, ask em why, be direct
Posted by initiationofplato, Mon Mar-16-15 09:56 AM
12752551, Im kind of wary to do so but I eventually will..with some more
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 10:00 AM
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12752555, hope it works out
Posted by initiationofplato, Mon Mar-16-15 10:02 AM
i'm guessing it's a girl?
12752570, nope--it's a dude I highly respect
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 10:06 AM
>i'm guessing it's a girl?
12752629, curious about the back story on this
Posted by initiationofplato, Mon Mar-16-15 10:27 AM
12752633, #23...its complicated
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 10:30 AM
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12752576, Maybe it was an accident?
Posted by Marbles, Mon Mar-16-15 10:08 AM

One of my best friend's from college is married to the girl he met & dated in school. We all know each other, I was in their wedding, etc.

At one point, I noticed she & I were no longer friends. I figured I may have said something that angered or offended her (sometimes, my friends & I have extended social/political discussions & we don't hold back).

Fast forward a few months...she & I both commented on another mutual friend's post. She hit me up & asked why we were no longer Facebook friends. I told her that I thought she was the one who cut me off. We chalked it up to sensitive touchscreens on our phones and laughed.
12752585, Ihope so but dont think so..I...
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 10:10 AM
checked mutual freinds list and a another significant person was also no longer a friend


> One of my best friend's from college is married to the girl
>he met & dated in school. We all know each other, I was in
>their wedding, etc.
>
> At one point, I noticed she & I were no longer friends. I
>figured I may have said something that angered or offended her
>(sometimes, my friends & I have extended social/political
>discussions & we don't hold back).
>
> Fast forward a few months...she & I both commented on another
>mutual friend's post. She hit me up & asked why we were no
>longer Facebook friends. I told her that I thought she was the
>one who cut me off. We chalked it up to sensitive touchscreens
>on our phones and laughed.
12752598, maybe their acct was deleted and they started over
Posted by DavidHasselhoff, Mon Mar-16-15 10:14 AM
12752636, he came out the closet j/k
Posted by legsdiamond, Mon Mar-16-15 10:31 AM
12752641, sings "You're so beautifulll" lol
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 10:35 AM
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12752746, "this the kinda song that makes a man love a man."
Posted by legsdiamond, Mon Mar-16-15 11:44 AM
fist pumps
12752554, at this point I've been drunk with unsubscribing from ppl
Posted by double negative, Mon Mar-16-15 10:01 AM
way cleaner way to do things
12752556, I ran into an old friend in my nabe who was like my very first friend in
Posted by Buddy_Gilapagos, Mon Mar-16-15 10:02 AM
college. We were super tight but by the end of college we weren't so close. I was soo happy to see she lived in the neighborhood and we promised to get up. I gave her my card and asked her to reach out.

I was glad to see her I went straight to facebook to find her and then I saw that I already had a fb friend request out to her from years ago which she never responded to. Then she never emailed me.

Then I remember towards the end of college she told a girl I was dating that she did't like me cause I did the girl dirty while dating.

I was like damn. Cold world.


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12752564, She's not worth the energy, rdhull
Posted by 8-bit, Mon Mar-16-15 10:05 AM
Let it go, man. Shit is mad passive-aggressive and straight-up goofy behaviour.
12752573, it's a dude but it got me disappointed
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 10:07 AM
>Let it go, man. Shit is mad passive-aggressive and
>straight-up goofy behaviour.
12752593, Way worse that it's a dude. I'd have to let homey sail off into the sunset
Posted by 8-bit, Mon Mar-16-15 10:12 AM
A dude acting passive-aggressive and goofy and deleting you off facebook like he's your EX? lol, without knowing anything about your relationship I'd say let that dude stroll off. Social media snobbery is some real funnystyle shit.

Might have to let homey cool off and get his emotions in check.
12752601, Everytime I post something political I drop a handful
Posted by bigkarma, Mon Mar-16-15 10:15 AM
In the early days of FB I just willy-nilly accepted every friend request from anyone I went to high school or college with. I didn't
realize how many of my old classmates went on to be ultra-conservatives, until I started dropping the occasional political think piece.

Every time I drop an anti-gun rant, or criticize organize religion and/or conservative media, I see my friends list take a hit.

Good riddance, although I do wish some of them would stick around, just so I can continue to piss them off.
12752605, I'm not scared to call someone out so I'd just be like, "What I do now?"
Posted by ThisIs_ATruthThang, Mon Mar-16-15 10:16 AM
12752638, lol @ now...
Posted by legsdiamond, Mon Mar-16-15 10:32 AM
12752642, lol.. someone told me they told someone that before
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 10:35 AM
12752620, I had posted something a few moths ago...
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 10:24 AM
about a website we and some others were on

me and another mutual friend said some things about how some shit was and how certain things went down within the now defunct site..we were reminiscin

talkin bout the good times, bad times, and things in between

as if lets say, Okayplayer had cut the lights off and youre talkin to another about the years being a member

he made a comments about using the thread to read awaiting some review I was set to write for an equally loved artist..but I feel he meant it as sarcasm because I think he was miffed about me mentioning a rift that had happened in the reminiscing (no names)

either way I wasnt the one being way neg but the other person conversing with me was

maybe dude who possibly deleted me and a few other significant others felt some kind of way since that time because since that fb post he never said anything again
12752631, dude, it's a dude. let it go.
Posted by Deadzombie, Mon Mar-16-15 10:29 AM
12752639, I just found out so I probably..wont lol.. look I kno...
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 10:33 AM
I know it sounds primary, school girlish etc but yall this is real lol

I really respect this person

we have this mutual respect
12752650, just message him direct, seriously
Posted by initiationofplato, Mon Mar-16-15 10:40 AM
let him know you respect him, etc. nothing wrong with that.
12752732, if you really respect him then call or text him.
Posted by SoWhat, Mon Mar-16-15 11:35 AM
if this relationship of y'all's is 'real' i assume you have some other method to reach him.

call/text and ask if y'all are cool.
12752802, I meant that I probably won't let it go
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 12:18 PM
>if this relationship of y'all's is 'real' i assume you have
>some other method to reach him.
>
>call/text and ask if y'all are cool.
12752727, i don't give a shit what ppl i love do w/FB.
Posted by SoWhat, Mon Mar-16-15 11:32 AM
probably b/c i don't put much stock in FB i wouldn't be perturbed if someone i love deleted me as a friend. b/c i could, you know, actually call them and talk. or, you know, if i'm really in their life i probably have some idea what's up w/them and could put the deletion in context.

there's no one i really care about whom i can only reach on FB - so if i found one of them deleted me and i felt some kinda way about it i'd reach them via some other method and ask what's up. however, i don't assume that we're no longer friends in the real world just b/c they deleted me on FB.
12752804, ^
Posted by initiationofplato, Mon Mar-16-15 12:22 PM
12752739, get a life?
Posted by LAbeathustla, Mon Mar-16-15 11:40 AM
i know u got one..get over it
12752752, or stop telling old stories where friends can get butt hurt
Posted by legsdiamond, Mon Mar-16-15 11:46 AM
I'm sure he didn't feel good seeing that story retold where HIS friends could also see it.

12752821, I said no names were said etc
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 12:33 PM
>I'm sure he didn't feel good seeing that story retold where
>HIS friends could also see it.

I was about tionsay " aye gimme some slack" but you know what? You right .. But inward reminiscing about everything good and bad and even crowned myself about how I was put in my placenetc... Self depreciating

But like you said, who knows how he felt about it being kind of brought up even in lieu of the myriad of subject matter
12752754, Be a man ab pick up the phone if you got issues.
Posted by Case_One, Mon Mar-16-15 11:49 AM

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"Today is your day to have a better life -- it's your right."
12752758, i usually chuckle and kim
Posted by esb225, Mon Mar-16-15 11:50 AM
unless I did something to them to justify that it's a demon they are fighting so I can't be worried about that.
12752769, A-yo! You know why I deleted you, so stop crying. Damn!
Posted by BlackSun, Mon Mar-16-15 11:56 AM
j/k

Primal Music For Life!
12752822, lol
Posted by rdhull, Mon Mar-16-15 12:34 PM
Take me back b sun
12752997, It wasn't so much as care so much as intense level of cultural disrespect
Posted by Kira, Mon Mar-16-15 02:15 PM
Dude was disrespectful beyond belief and we almost came to blows twice in church over it. He left and I have yet to see each other again.