we had sex a few years ago, once,
but we never mentioned it again.

but after we had a conversation about
"what is sex," for the first time in years,
we actually talked about the fact that he and i had sex.

this explains why so many of my friendships over the years have
been so... complicated.

how do you interact with ppl you've had sex with
and just never ever tall about it?

that's insane.