A couple of assumptions:

1. You don't like your father-n-law and he doesn't like you all that much.
2. Your wife adores her father and is constantly comparing you to him.


I guess I should make clear that this is completely a hypothetical. I've been thinking about it ever since seeing it on Mad Men.

I think it should be a question in a google interview or on a personality test because I think your answer says so much about what type of person you are.

and then i'd leave after i finished.

i also am? and he judging me for being somewhere where his was at too?

makes no sense...

but if he sees me, i'll lock eyes with him

and the next time i see him in another space

i'll lock eyes with him again. and at that moment, there will be an understanding between us...

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we have something in common - we like whores. and possibly a shared secret - we're adulterers and whoremongers.

if not, all bets are off.

for the hypothetical situation.

first, if i saw my FIL at a whorehouse, we'd probably sip some bourbon, smoke a cig and rap about it. my man likes to talk. i honestly don't see him being mad/pissed/whatever with me, cause he a cool ass dude and i feel like he'd just get it. nothin' i can say to him, he's a single dude, so he's free to do what he wants. i'm the one married to his daughter, and while he'd probably be a little disappointed at first, i don't know. maybe not.*

now the question for the scenario: is the FIL married also? and if so, is he married to your MIL? i think the answers to these questions would frame the perspective a bit.

*edit* as i reread this, i downplayed the potential for him to also be completely pissed at me. yes, there is also the possibility of that, and shit that could very well be his reaction. but i don't really think it'd be like that.

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>now the question for the scenario: is the FIL married also?
>and if so, is he married to your MIL? i think the answers to
>these questions would frame the perspective a bit.

Z

He is in the same boat as you (not single).


I need to complicate this further. See my additional info below.



>for the hypothetical situation.
>
>first, if i saw my FIL at a whorehouse, we'd probably sip some
>bourbon, smoke a cig and rap about it. my man likes to talk.
>i honestly don't see him being mad/pissed/whatever with me,
>cause he a cool ass dude and i feel like he'd just get it.
>nothin' i can say to him, he's a single dude, so he's free to
>do what he wants. i'm the one married to his daughter, and
>while he'd probably be a little disappointed at first, i don't
>know. maybe not.*
>
>now the question for the scenario: is the FIL married also?
>and if so, is he married to your MIL? i think the answers to
>these questions would frame the perspective a bit.
>
>*edit* as i reread this, i downplayed the potential for him
>to also be completely pissed at me. yes, there is also the
>possibility of that, and shit that could very well be his
>reaction. but i don't really think it'd be like that.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're r

and reminisce about over some bourbon. haha

..

besides like out nevada?

I couldnt think of anything they could do to my body that'd be worth $10.

Hand job?

Thanks. I couldn't think of any service worth only $10. That makes sense.

You paying at least $25 to get in the door for 30 mins.

is your experience personal or are you going by what you've been told as well?

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replies when i read it as part of the reply and not a separate thought...


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S.P.A.

But even here - absolutely. Most of the women working in them are caught up in sex trafficking. Most are immigrants here without papers who are working to get their papers or to bring family over or to pay a debt or a host of other illegal/exploitive shit.

like this was my closest boy...I was with a girl i had been feeeling for a long time but she had a fiance and my boy had a girl but he was with a shorty he had been digging for a minute as well. Bc of that, neither of us had known the other was handling their business in that manner. When we passed each other in the hall, we was mad happy for each other, giving congratulatory daps and everything lol.

The girl i was with was pissed but we were done anyway so it was all good haha.

And you all have been beefing alot and she keeps comparing you to her father who she says will never do something like that.

You know if you spill the beans on your FiL it would crush your SO and probably destroy you in-laws marriage.

Do you tell it!?!?!?





>A couple of assumptions:
>
>1. You don't like your father-n-law and he doesn't like you
>all that much.
>2. Your wife adores her father and is constantly comparing
>you to him.
>
>
>I guess I should make clear that this is completely a
>hypothetical. I've been thinking about it ever since seeing
>it on Mad Men.
>
>I think it should be a question in a google interview or on a
>personality test because I think your answer says so much
>about what type of person you are.
>


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're r

that ain't gonna have no bearing on your relationship with her, your messing up her relationship with her pops and their marriage aka causing more problems for yourself.

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're r

crash her world. It ain't gonna put 'you' in a better light.

let her stay in the bubble she wanna live in. I just won't be a part of it.

since it'd appear i'd said that to save myself. and he's likely to deny it if she confronts him.

i have no proof so i wouldn't go there.

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're r

Throwing another man's name in the dirt will never get yours clean...why fuck up their relationship? It won't save yours.

If I remember correctly Pete Campbell spilled the beans out of spite but it didn't save his marriage any. It pulled them further apart and she didn't believe him.

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>Do you tell it!?!?!?
>
>
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>>A couple of assumptions:
>>
>>1. You don't like your father-n-law and he doesn't like you
>>all that much.
>>2. Your wife adores her father and is constantly comparing
>>you to him.
>>
>>
>>I guess I should make clear that this is completely a
>>hypothetical. I've been thinking about it ever since seeing
>>it on Mad Men.
>>
>>I think it should be a question in a google interview or on
>a
>>personality test because I think your answer says so much
>>about what type of person you are.
>>
>
>
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>"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then
>they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson
>
>"One of the most important things in life is what Judge
>Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to
>whether you're r

It goes without saying. Neither party can rat out the other without incriminating himself. If anyone talks, then you have 'mutual assured destruction'. The problem solves itself very cleanly.

So and so told me you be coming here but i didn't want to believe it. He was going to tell your wife. I said let me see for myself before you do anything and so I followed you. I'm disgusted by your actions, but i'm sure there's a way we can work this out."

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're r

because i was trying to blend in and Andressa's ass makes for a wonderful hiding spot, duh.

b/c you could've just waited OUTSIDE to bust him. you didn't need to go inside the brothel to get the confirmation.

On video but he saw me before I had a chance to bust him.

ya can't sell that story to anyone w/common sense.

unless you'd made an arrangement w/the brothel to set up video equipment in a specific location where FIL would commit his dirty deed such that you could video record it. you'd need someone from the brothel to confirm that arrangement. b/c no one will believe you'd planned to video record him w/o the brothel's agreement b/c brothel's are pretty big on protecting the identities of their clients and workers. a brothel that can't offer discretion won't last long. plus if you run around a brothel snapping pix w/o permission you're likely to get yourself fucked up by a burly bouncer if not arrested by police. ppl know this - they see it in movies and on tv.

no one will buy that.

and everyone knows that brothels don't allow pix to be taken.

they won't buy your story.

besides - you had enough to bust FIL when he went IN the brothel. you didn't need to get pix or video of what he was doing.

keep in mind, FIL is going to be contesting everything you say. and his story is going to make much more sense - he was in there to fuck and so were you. that's believable. your story isn't. he's likely to be found more credible.

Hey FiL, tell your daughter what you were doing last saturday night?

70% of mofos would fall apart under scrutiny.

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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're r

'Tell my daughter how you know what I was doing last Saturday night.'

'Better idea, son in law, let's tell her that funny story about the time we ran into each other a whore house.'

it's a powder keg waiting to explode in the son in law's face.

i've actually been in a similar situation at a bathhouse. i was in there and was all worried about who'd see me while i was there. and then i did see some ppl i knew - casual friends who like to gossip, even. and i realized that they had nothing on me b/c they were in there too. anything they said i had a perfect comeback. in that moment i understood why i'd not heard any gossip about so-and-so being in the bathhouse. b/c how did the reporting person know unless they were in there too? so what shade could they throw?

same thing here. the father and son in law have nothing on each other. they might as well bond over it.

are some people who would do it just to prove a point or win an argument.


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"Everyone has a plan until you punch them in the face. Then they don't have a plan anymore." (c) Mike Tyson

"One of the most important things in life is what Judge Learned Hand described as 'that ever-gnawing inner doubt as to whether you're r

Got a well thought out response and everything

I just looked at and smiled and said "Whatup Unc!", dapped him on and went on about my business, I assume he did too

...we start planning "father & son" trips together to Brazil, the DR, etc.