>i'd agree prison homos are a decent counter to the absolute
>of it never being a choice but yea...
>
>i'm not 100% mad at him...i don't think this makes him
>stupid...i think this makes him biased as fuck and looking for
>a gotcha and he just might be a smart idiot
>
>the homo debates or what i call the one drop of dick rule bc
>(we are never concerned with lesbians in these discussions it
>seem) is at worst idiotic and at best problematic and
>subjective
>
>homosexual acts don't necessarily make someone a
>homosexual...it's a weird idea to wrap your head around but I
>think it holds at least a little truth to it...i understand
>why this isn't THAT widely accepted a theory and my personal
>stance is that it's most likely true of anyone experimenting
>or some other exceptions...i don't think it's a good theory as
>a rule of thumb though...
>
>like straight men have sex with women they aren't attracted to
>or romantically interested in often...if options are
>limited...those same 2 conditions are the same but with a
>man...in general, we're all conditioned to not even entertain
>that idea but clearly...
>
>prison sex (and too often rape) are choices...i don't think
>that's too much of a stretch...whether that makes them
>homosexuals may vary but I'd guess it'd have a lot to do with
>if it's something they would continue outside of prison and
>many other factors or if they are actually physically or
>romantically attracted to men...
>
>if either of those conditions are true than sure you are gay,
>bisexual, or a straight woman lol
>
>one of the problems is that when having the discussion,
>self-identity becomes paramount to anything else despite the
>fact that stigma, social and psychological issues can warp
>self-identity. When talking about respecting people...it's
>important, but when talking about sexuality and theories and
>concepts to make sense of what make us all tick...it's not
>helpful
>
>if sexuality is truly on a spectrum like it seems to be...it
>leaves room for some choice...nature vs nurture is everywhere